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Juliet27 Mon 17-Feb-20 17:11:06

But at least you caught him doing it. Mine would do it secretly and deny he knew anything about it. He once told me a squirrel had broken branches of my acer, despite there being clean cuts. I know how angry you must be feeling.

rosenoir Mon 17-Feb-20 17:09:33

So sorry, what does he say when you ask him why he is a petty, controlling tosser?

tanith Mon 17-Feb-20 17:08:01

That’s horrendous don’t think I’d be able to put up with with such spiteful behaviour without retaliating. ?

grandMattie Mon 17-Feb-20 17:04:47

I,m so sorry. It must be dreadful to have someone wrecking things just to p..s you off! flowers

Namsnanny Mon 17-Feb-20 17:02:15

I'm fuming! My husband has just gone outside and cut my prized rose down!!
Even as I was begging him to stop he carried on and on and cut at least 4 more stems to the ground.
He has form, he's done things like this before so I know he did it on purpose.
Sorry my nmother was the same, so I understand this stupid game.
She had half the plants in the garden killed or dug up to upset my Father, so I guess according to the experts I only have myself to blame for picking someone similar.

I can just imagine how ridiculous I sound, getting het up like this, but dealing with this narcissistic passive aggressive behaviour is so exhausting.
Too tired too sad to know or even care what to do about it. I just wanted to vent to someone
Sigh.