AIBU. Noise from neighbors music.

I feel for you too. I hate noise anyway but that thump thump base sound, especially at a certain tempo is so annoying.

You say they are nice people which is good so why not go round again and very politely say you can still hear their music.

It’s best to try to keep on good terms with them rather than going down the Environmental Health route if at all possible.

You could as has been suggested, invite them round to hear it in your house and at the same time you could say they must let you know if they can hear any noise from you.

That will help to keep it friendly.

I really do feel for you. I just can’t understand why people think they can inflict their music on the neighbours it’s so inconsiderate.

I don't really know what to advise unless you try to drown the noise out or buy some earplugs. Maybe even tell them that it’s driving you out and if they are genuinely decent people they’ll realise how bad it is for you.

Feel really sorry for you JoJo. Perhaps as someone suggested, invite them round so that they can hear it. Keep it friendly though, as you say they are otherwise nice people. Don’t move!

I do sympathise. Hearing the bass is TERRIBLE. I know exactly what JOJO60 means. It's actually very stressful. We have the same problem. If it was nice melodic music I could cope better. I would never inflict my choice of music on anyone, but I am seriously thinking of putting radio 4 or Classic FM on loud at a time when it will possibly annoy them.
You are not a moaning minnie. They are making you complain continually. If you aren't really on speaking terms, and don't care about staying friendly with them, perhaps you should see what you can do legally. Look up the rules for noise nuisance for your area.
Moving doesn't always solve a problem. You could have a problem in your new home.
Why can people not be considerate of others? We use earphones in the garden. Ours have a barking dog too, and park in front of our house. And clatter up and down wooden stairs. And we had to erect a high fence when they built a very high patio. Grr.

Poor you.I hate this.And I can't understand why people think it's acceptable to inflict their music on others. Unless it was a one off party -in which case I would appologise in advance to neighbours-I wouldn't dream of anything more than a radio on very quietly.Unfortunately this seems ever more common and the current trend for decking gardens our as an extension of the house with speakers and lights has made life miserable for our DD recently with hee neighbours thumping music out.And the garden lit up like an Xmas tree.Rubbish for wildlife too.
I would try again nicely to explain how intrusive it is.Good luck !

Ask your neighbour to come in your garden and hear how loud it is, it might deter her.

So, you can't actually hear the songs, only the bass? Ask them if their m/c has an equaliser and to dial it down a bit, perhaps?
It's a tough one,OP, cos it is only the bass notes which are annoying you. So sorry.