BlueBelle
*We phoned the police but because of age they couldn’t take it further.*
I think you need to Complain to the police big time because a boy if 14 is not absolved of rape or sexual abuse just because they are under the age of 18 younger children than this boy have got Custodial sentences for this.....
You have done the right thing in just ignoring and blocking his mum but it sounds as if you have been given bad advice in the past
It was 20 years ago and my daughter would of had to testify at 5 so they decided against because of my daughter not him.
She was already scared and scarred from it all. Then having to relive it at a later date. CPS decided no.
She did have counselling/therapy for awhile afterwards Which helped and we used therapy as she was growing up.