Think others have pretty much said it all but why JuneB do you say you don't want to walk away? Small steps is all it takes. Are you scared to make those steps? Or is your lifestyle something you think you can trade for your husbands behaviour? Only you can decide. As you sound you don't want this lifestyle then make plans. Talk to a solicitor, get your affairs in order, then present your husband with a fait accompli. THIS is what I am doing!
That way you will know exactly where you stand and forget what ever he says in response. Just give him the papers!
If you start worrying or wondering what is going on in his head you will lose momentum so be absolutely clear in your head what you want.
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