Frankly, I'm shocked and astonished by the the selfish attitudes of some older people ... and we keep being told it's the younger ones who are being irresponsible, and spreading the virus!
I have been pleading with my father for several months not to go out of the house, and not to have people in. Constantly, I've tried to explain the rules and restrictions of lockdown ... just because people are legally allowed to go out for essential shopping, etc., doesn't mean they HAVE to go out, if they have someone who does their shopping for them, which he does!! But did he listen to me?! No! He still went out, just because he said he was allowed to!!
Consequently, he ended up in hospital recently, due to an accident he had whilst he was out! He had three negative test results whilst he was there. Unfortunately, his last test result, upon discharge, was positive for Covid! He is obviously very remorseful, and, of course, he bitterly regrets that he didn't listen me. If he hadn't left home (unnecessarily!), he wouldn't have had an accident, and he wouldn't have contracted the virus in the hospital! He is now coughing badly, struggling to breath, and hooked up to a machine to help with his oxygen levels.
I live overseas, and I've been unable to visit my father for the past year, due to lockdowns/travel restrictions, and, now, I may never see him again. I have gone through every emotion possible, from being extremely angry with him, for being so stubborn and irresponsible, to now being totally distraught, and beside myself with worry! Unless you are unfortunate enough to be in this position, you can not begin to imagine what it's like.
For all you selfish people out there, who think it's OK to go out and about, or to mix your bubbles, or to have people in your home, I want to say, it's not just about you! Try not to be so selfish, and start thinking about the people who love, and care about you. Because, at the end of the day, we're the ones who end up having to deal with all the heartache, worry and stress that you end up causing us ... just because you wanted to pop to the shops, or have a 'friend' in for coffee!!