Are you being unreasonable????

No, I’m never BU. I used to be conceited but I’m perfect now.

Well, that's put me in my place!

Ah, but you have to be able to tell the difference between reason and prejudice or tradition.

You might think you have a reason but it might not be.

i have always been me ,and i still am ...

Maybe Chazwin is being unreasonable Scribbles

How very dare you!

Obviously some of us reach our conclusions based on reason and logic. others might base them on feeling, instinct and intuition.
Both groups might well seek reassurance from others by asking whether they are being reasonable or not.

Asking for others’ opinions isn’t an indication of unreasonableness, more an indication of lack of confidence.

Or open mindedness!! And being prepared to accept there might be another point of view!!

Well that's several seconds of my life I will never get back !

Have you checked how many AIBU threads there are over on MN OP!!!

Human nature to sometimes question your own reasoning, to ask others to confirm a point of view or ponder on the fact that maybe not everyone comes at whatever is under discussion from the same angle.

Some people are made to feel they are being unreasonable by those who are being unreasonable and it's good to get opinions of others as to whether you are being unreasonable or not.

It depends

If you suffer from nice girl syndrome, it may be a yanbu

the MN threads can be horrible so I tend to avoid going there at all. AIBU?

Well put AGAA4.

If you CAN think of a good reason for being the way you are then, you are not [being unreasonable]

I expect Basil Fawlty believed he had good reasons for being the way he was.
Hmm.

Basil Fawlty should never have gone into the hospitality industry. I blame Sybil

On MN loads of threads are put under AIBU as it gets more traffic. There’s also a voting button 😀Not really a issue here on such a small site - anyway we can put everything now on the Arguments thread which is exactly where this thread should be and IANBU

JaneJudge !
You are unreasonable to blame Sybil.

FarNorth

JaneJudge !
You are unreasonable to blame Sybil.

Maybe JaneJudge is an actual judge. AIBU?

I am far to soft (and academically lazy) to be an actual judge!