I don’t think I am BU.
She is in her 30s with 2 lovely children who adore her, as does her husband as far as I can tell.
I haven’t seen her for months because of Covid. I saw her on a video call a couple of days ago and she has put on so much weight she struggled to get up off the sofa.
She has always been overweight, as have I. I have health problems as a result and I really don’t want her to end up like me.
I feel guilty that it’s probably my fault, in terms of her childhood and adolescence.
Her children would be devastated if anything happened to her and of course so would I.
But what can I do? She’s far from stupid and knows that it’s a problem.
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