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NannyB2604 Tue 27-Apr-21 16:15:44

Hi everyone. We're in the process of selling our house and all seemed to be going ok until yesterday. The estate agent relayed a request from our purchasers: when they move in the want to pave the whole front garden to make standing room for their caravan and vintage Cadillac (seriously!). In connection with this, they've asked us to cut back the hedge and prune back or remove the (very well-established) shrubs in the garden as, I quote "They don't have time to do it"! Am I being unreasonable to say no? They saw what the garden was like when they put in their offer. By the way, the hedge and shrubs aren't running rampant - we keep them reasonably pruned to complement our currently lawned garden.

Jillsewing Thu 29-Apr-21 13:31:55

Nice try just ignore

rowyn Thu 29-Apr-21 13:38:34

I'm amazed that the estate agent even relayed their request. They should know that there is no way you are going to make drastic changes to the garden before the sale has gone through.

Nana4 Thu 29-Apr-21 13:42:10

To OP
Your purchasers are nuts to expect you will comply to their request! I feel sorry for your current neighbours when they move in, but in the end it isn’t your problem.

Rollergirl999 Thu 29-Apr-21 13:50:24

They are cheeky so and so’s! The answer is no.

antheacarol55 Thu 29-Apr-21 13:52:52

I think they cheeky and I would not do it they put offer in you accept end of

TrendyNannie6 Thu 29-Apr-21 13:57:49

Never ever heard of anything like this, we would never ask someone to do this, surely you buy as seen and do the alterations when you actually live there, cheeky sods!

Greeneyedgirl Thu 29-Apr-21 13:58:52

Don’t you have to have planning permission nowadays to pave new areas of driveway over a certain size, and it should be permeable to allow drainage?

Jane43 Thu 29-Apr-21 14:08:43

You say they want to do the work when they move in so of course it’s up to them what they do once the house is theirs but there’s no way I would make any changes to the garden in case the sale falls through. Sales can fall through even after contracts have been exchanged. They will just have to make the time to do what they plan to do or pay somebody to do it.

I am reminded of a house we viewed 7 years ago before we moved into our current house. It was a 1930s house with a very small kitchen but the best feature was the gardens, they had a lot of space at the side which was beautifully laid out and the back garden was nice too with lawn, shrubs and vegetable plots. A woman owned it with her daughter and she was clearly the one who tended to the garden. Reading between the lines she didn’t want to move and she pointed out a couple of negative points of the house. The house wasn’t for us but it did sell pretty quickly and after the sale went through we drove past and noticed that the whole of the side garden had been dug up, all the plants and shrubs were gone and they were in the process of making it into a parking area. It must have broken the woman’s heart but it was up to the new owners what they did with it.

GoldenAge Thu 29-Apr-21 14:09:24

No unreasonable - the offer was made on the basis of house and garden as seen. Any work they require to be done can be done when the sale is complete and they can pay for it. I wonder what your neighbours will think of the caravan and vintage cadillac on your driveway?

Nanette1955 Thu 29-Apr-21 14:16:05

I think I’d get a gardener to quote for the work, then ask your agent to pass it on, saying you’ll happily set this is motion with the gardener, upon your completion, and here is what the gardener will charge them. That should make them think twice! X

Lesley60 Thu 29-Apr-21 14:16:17

Omg what a cheek do you have any offers or has this purchase gone to far, I wouldn’t really want to sell to them.

Jillybird Thu 29-Apr-21 14:41:48

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Florida12 Thu 29-Apr-21 15:12:45

I wonder what makes them think that their time is more important than yours?

Just reflect their reason back to them, ‘you don’t have the time’

And no, I don’t think you are being unreasonable. Did the agent not think this was an odd request?

Kamiso Thu 29-Apr-21 15:17:56

Tempting as it is to tell them to get lost but best to politely tell then NO! Tempers get frayed in the final stages so no point in inflaming the situation.

After we moved we heard that one couple had cut down a beautiful wisteria that hung over the front wall and on another occasion an old but prolific apple tree was cut down along with all trees and established shrubs. Sad and wasteful but obviously their house, their choice.

NannyB2604 Thu 29-Apr-21 15:27:34

Thanks everyone. As the sale is now almost 2 months in, and we don't want to lose the lovely house we're buying, we won't be withdrawing from the sale, but we certainly won't be doing what the buyers have requested. If they withdraw, well so be it, I think our house will easily sell (we had half a dozen other offers). As for any planning permission issues - well that's up to them, nothing to do with us. Thanks again, all - it's good to know others don't think we're being unreasonable

poshpaws Thu 29-Apr-21 15:28:29

No, no, no don't agree to do ANY work for them! As plenty of previous posters have said, how would you feel if you did what they're asking and the sale fell through last minute?

They're taking the mickey big-time!

A house is on the market for people to view and if they like it, buy: if it's not exactly what they want they can either alter after purchase or sod off and let someone who appreciates it make an offer.

seadragon Thu 29-Apr-21 15:48:57

At the last minute our sellers, in 1991 asked us for an additional £1,000 - 'to help with their removal expenses!'.... My MIL very kindly offered to give us the money. I refused both the request and the offer. The sale went through as previously agreed...

LynneH Thu 29-Apr-21 15:55:42

avitorl

It would be a definite no from me but I would agree to them having it done after exchange of Contracts and at their own expense too.

Even after exchange of contracts, there’s a chance the deal could fall through. I wouldn’t allow them to do anything until after completion

tickingbird Thu 29-Apr-21 15:59:30

The bare faced cheek of them! You are not being unreasonable.

Pammie1 Thu 29-Apr-21 16:01:53

Absolutely not - you are only responsible for either carrying out works or reducing the selling price to account for issues brought up in a surveyors report. If you do this work and the sale doesn’t proceed for some reason, then you’ve ruined an attractive garden which could put potential future buyers off. I would tell them politely that you don’t intend to do anything of the sort - if they really want the house, it won’t put them off. Once you have completed they can do what they want, and will have to pay for it themselves. Cheeky sods !!

SparklyGrandma Thu 29-Apr-21 16:07:07

The cheek of it! Perhaps they’d like you to emulsion the whole downstairs too?

timetogo2016 Thu 29-Apr-21 16:14:03

What a damn cheek.
Make an excuse not to do it just incase they pull out,like saying you have a bad back etc.
Gosh the nerve of some people.

Caro57 Thu 29-Apr-21 16:29:23

Can you take the shrubs with you or give them to those who would enjoy them

JulieMM Thu 29-Apr-21 16:55:46

Do they want you to redecorate the house to their tastes too??? Flipping cheek!!

RosesAreRed21 Thu 29-Apr-21 17:06:47

Goodness no way. They made an offer on the house as they seen it - what they want to do when they move in is entirely up to them