vampirequeen
You're definitely not being unreasonable. I've had four in the last two years. The first was so painful they couldn't complete it and I had to go back as a day patient and have it done under GA. The second and third I managed to scream my way through. By the time I had the fourth I was traumatised. Even the consultant admitted it was painful and said the he was amazed I'd come back again. He asked me if I'd like a local anaesthetic which I did. The injection was uncomfortable but nothing like the pain that comes with the procedure. Once it took effect I felt no pain. So don't let them tell you that local anaesthetic isn't available. It is.
Your experiences sound like some form of medieval torture not a rich country in the 21st century. Why do we as women think this is anywhere near acceptable? Before anyone thinks I’m victim blaming, what I mean is what has resulted in some of us accepting the idea that we should not be offered appropriate sedation whether local or general ? And what are those professionals involved playing at? I wonder also how many appointments fail and thus resources wasted plus some women then being hesitant to seek further treatment? The OP brought in the word ‘wimp’. I thought that was really sad.