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TV problems - DH's attitude

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Trisha57 Mon 10-May-21 21:28:15

We have treated ourselves to a new Smart TV which is bigger and better than our old one. I paid for half of it, which is our usual practice. The TV has super HD and would be brilliant if we were able to use all its facilities. However, my husband has discovered that if we use the proper route to the TV via its own remote control, he will not be able to access Now TV to watch some of his favourite team's football matches. We also have Sky Sport which costs quite a lot of money per month so that he can watch football. I pay half the subscription cost to both Now TV and Sky Sport although I never watch those channels. So, the upshot is that we watch TV via another route with our old remote control and the picture is far less sharp, and the sound is very fuzzy. Tonight, the old TV remote packed up and nothing will bring it back to life, so the TV got stuck on one channel. I suggested we used new remote control as it was supposed to be used, but of course he won't programme the viewing via that as he wouldn't be able to watch Now TV.

Am I being unreasonable to feel a bit fed up with him? I do, after all, pay for the subscriptions that I don't watch and I have said that if he wants to buy another TV and pay for the subscriptions himself I would be quite happy for him to watch his sport in another room. He didn't reply to that one!

Sorry if I don't know all the technical terms, but I do know that our son-in-law, when we first bought the TV, programmed it so that we could watch programmes in super HD with just one remote control for all functions but when DH found that he couldn't access Now TV he asked for it to be accessed via our old remote control with a not-so-good picture and sound.

Trisha57 Thu 13-May-21 17:34:02

Thank you MerylStreep and StatenIsland, I was beginning to think I was posting into the wilderness!

tanith Thu 13-May-21 17:36:25

Anyone commenting please read Trisha's explanatory post above before you post something totally irrelevant. ?

MerylStreep Thu 13-May-21 17:42:39

Trisha
The Don McLean song springs to mind.
They’re not listening now, perhaps they never will
It is my mission now to quote your post after every nonsensical, mean, post.
Let’s see how it goes ?

MerylStreep Thu 13-May-21 17:45:13

BTW, anyone is free to join me ?

chattykathy Thu 13-May-21 18:01:05

Trisha, my apologies. I read one of your posts as saying he didn't let you watch your favourite programmes. I was reading through quickly and totally got the wrong end of the stick, so sorry. I'll butt out now...

Trisha57 Thu 13-May-21 18:05:52

No problem, chattykathy, no harm done. He knows better than to try!

Nagmad2016 Thu 13-May-21 18:17:42

I suggest you get your own TV. We did, and it's perfect. Sometimes we watch together, but get to control our own remotes. It may seem petty, but it keeps the peace.

Eskay10 Thu 13-May-21 18:27:49

Connect the remote yourself and watch what you want as well. I am sure he will soon prefer to watch the HD channels once he gets used to a few. Sometimes they just need to be shown the way forward.

MerylStreep Thu 13-May-21 18:38:16

Nagmad2016

I suggest you get your own TV. We did, and it's perfect. Sometimes we watch together, but get to control our own remotes. It may seem petty, but it keeps the peace.

READ TRISHAS POST 17.34.

Grannybags Thu 13-May-21 18:47:53

MerylStreep ??

Trisha57 Thu 13-May-21 21:05:12

MerylStreep grin

Doodledog Thu 13-May-21 21:11:42

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Joesoap Thu 13-May-21 21:24:50

Get someone who knows what he is doing to install whatever you need.If you are paying for half of everything surely you must be able to have a say in the matter.Stop paying the subscription and get a tv of your own. Dont let him bully you any more

MerylStreep Thu 13-May-21 21:28:06

Doodledog
I think there are a lot here who could give that film a few pointers ?

MerylStreep Thu 13-May-21 21:31:13

Joesoap

Get someone who knows what he is doing to install whatever you need.If you are paying for half of everything surely you must be able to have a say in the matter.Stop paying the subscription and get a tv of your own. Dont let him bully you any more

Did you read the bloody answers that Trisha has given or are you just being disrespectful to her by ignoring her posts ????

Trisha57 Thu 13-May-21 21:33:01

Joesoap
READ TRISHAS POST 17.34.

Trisha57 Thu 13-May-21 21:34:55

Joesoap
And also read Trisha's post 17:29:56

Saetana Fri 14-May-21 01:09:49

Yes you should certainly be able to plug in either a NOWTV stick or the tiny box (which is what we have) into your TV and use it like that. We have a Samsung TV and also had issues trying to find an app for NOWTV - so we just plugged in our old box and it works fine. Its been a learning curve for us as well as this is our first smart tv (bought 6 months ago).

StatenIsland Fri 14-May-21 02:51:38

Saetana, I have a Samsung purchased in Dec last year. The NOW app is in the Apps folder - the one with the four circles near the Home and Search icons. Currently advertising Bryan Cranston in Your Honour on Sky Atlantic. Doesn't matter if you have sorted it another way but information which may help others negotiating the learning curve that is Smart TV.

SueEH Fri 14-May-21 09:00:38

My parents' new Panasonic tv does not support the Now TV app. I used a Now V box for them on the old television but they are now obsolete and the preferred entry is through the app. I tried last week to activate Now TV so that my dad could watch the sport channels and discovered that it just plain won't work. If he wants to watch the sport then he's going to have to get Sky Sports which I think will be a bit confusing for a 92 year old!

janex Fri 14-May-21 10:16:48

I have a bt view recorder and freeview so l don't pay any monthly payments.

NotSpaghetti Fri 14-May-21 10:30:11

My mother-in-law has a "smart" TV she's had for a few years.
She can't get All4 on hers.

I couldn't believe this but it turns out that for this particular model of TV made over a particular year (2016?) the facility doesn't exist. I think actually it may have vanished on an update but it's a pity as All4 often has things I think she would like.

From memory, I believe her TV is a Panasonic.

...I know this is a bit off-piste but it just goes to show that some smart TV models are not as smart as others.

Hetty58 Fri 14-May-21 10:33:43

Trisha57, I've always had my own sitting room - and my own TV - essential, I believe, whoever else is at home!

olddudders Fri 14-May-21 11:18:34

MerylStreep

Joesoap

Get someone who knows what he is doing to install whatever you need.If you are paying for half of everything surely you must be able to have a say in the matter.Stop paying the subscription and get a tv of your own. Dont let him bully you any more

Did you read the bloody answers that Trisha has given or are you just being disrespectful to her by ignoring her posts ????

MerylStreep I am deeply concerned for your health and welfare, principally your blood-pressure, but also I am sure that grinding noise I can hear here in France must be your teeth!

I absolutely sympathise about threads where reading and understanding are not recognised as essential pre-requisites by all contributors.

But it does make for entertaining reading, thankyou. Keep up the good work!

TBsNana Fri 14-May-21 11:51:46

Smart TV's are a flipping Nightmare aren't they!

I think though you could watch NOW! from your Smart TV - you just need to download the app to enable it and then sign in to the NOW account - so you get the nice picture and DH gets Football (groan!)