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TV problems - DH's attitude

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jusnoneed Tue 11-May-21 08:34:47

We can access all the channels via the remote that came with our smart tv. I think you would just choose the option for NowTV from the apps (they roll along the bottom of the screen on ours). Set it up, sign in to your account and off you go.
We have SkyQ and simply use it's own remote when we switch over to that.
I'm not sure why the picture quality would be affected by which remote control he uses though.

I also have to say I don't understand why you are paying half the subscriptions if you never watch them.

Polarbear2 Tue 11-May-21 08:14:50

I’m thinking he’s possibly a typical male who doesn’t really understand the way the new tv/remote works so is using the old one to cover his lack of knowledge. My OH reckons to be good at tech but is actually really rubbish. He doesn’t read instructions properly. Am sure there are other reasons and no you’re not being unreasonable- but the fragile male ego could be a factor.

Gingster Tue 11-May-21 07:58:57

Another tv is what is needed.

vegansrock Tue 11-May-21 07:00:11

Agree you need to set up the TV properly so you can use the remote it came with, there is no reason why you can’t access Now through it, maybe needs recalibration or reinstalling or whatever, Contact the manufacturer or retailer where it was bought. Not wanting to watch sport is another issue and maybe you need your own TV (jointly paid for ).

Ladyleftfieldlover Tue 11-May-21 06:54:03

Sorry, but it sounds to me like you are allowing yourself to be bullied! Just stand up for yourself. You do know we’re living in 2021?

SpringyChicken Tue 11-May-21 06:46:44

I think you need a tv installer to visit and sort it out. Using the old remote sounds bonkers.

Nansnet Tue 11-May-21 06:43:20

I'd suggest you ask someone, who knows properly how Smart TVs work, to come and set it all up properly for you. We bought one, and didn't have clue what we were doing, or how all the functions work.confused DS finally talked us through it all, and we're now able to access NowTV, Netflix, Sky, and all the usual channels, with one remote control. We don't live in the UK, but I assume the basic technology is the same. Oh, for a more simple life!wink

NotSpaghetti Mon 10-May-21 23:17:55

I find it hard to believe you can't add Now if your TV is a new one.
I suggest you do as StatenIsland suggests - or google the actual model and see if anyone else has this problem.

Good luck.

StatenIsland Mon 10-May-21 23:11:41

You might want to review whether you are paying twice for the same channels seeing as Sky own Now.

Have you checked the apps on your Smart TV? It may be that you haven’t added it to the ones that come preset. I bought a Smart TV at the end of last year and Now was already in the presets. I can remember removing it as I no longer have Sky or want any of their channels other than Sky Arts which is now free to air via Freeview.

Do you have Sky+ or SkyQ? I thought one of the benefits of having SkyQ is that you access all your services through the Sky interface and their voice-controlled remote rather than, if you watch via the Smart TV interface, you have to remember which app you were watching what on.

If you don’t feel you can sort this on your own, I’d wait until your husband is out, give Sky a call and ask them to talk you through setting up Now through your Sky interface.

Else look at your Smart TV remote for a button called Source. That will show all the devices you have attached. Choose the one that says TV. Tab along the apps (Netflix, Amazon, BBC iPlayer, ITV Hub, All4 etc) and find one that says Apps - it's often located near the Home and Search options. See if you can find Now in there and install it.

tanith Mon 10-May-21 22:46:13

Sorry I don’t think you are being unreasonable.

tanith Mon 10-May-21 22:45:09

I’m not sure I understand, I use 3 different remotes with my smart tv, the DVD player remote works the tv once the DVD is switched on plus two remotes that came with the tv including a smart remote. I can’t see anywhere in my settings to set it for only one remote, I have Netflix and Now tv they all work fine.

Blossoming Mon 10-May-21 22:41:57

No, I don’t think you’re being unreasonable, I think your husband is.

overthehill Mon 10-May-21 22:07:55

All sounds very complicated. The only thing I can suggest is get your own TV do you can watch what you want. We don't pay for any services, we just watch freeview and bought a recorder so we can also see all the catch up stations.

Trisha57 Mon 10-May-21 21:28:15

We have treated ourselves to a new Smart TV which is bigger and better than our old one. I paid for half of it, which is our usual practice. The TV has super HD and would be brilliant if we were able to use all its facilities. However, my husband has discovered that if we use the proper route to the TV via its own remote control, he will not be able to access Now TV to watch some of his favourite team's football matches. We also have Sky Sport which costs quite a lot of money per month so that he can watch football. I pay half the subscription cost to both Now TV and Sky Sport although I never watch those channels. So, the upshot is that we watch TV via another route with our old remote control and the picture is far less sharp, and the sound is very fuzzy. Tonight, the old TV remote packed up and nothing will bring it back to life, so the TV got stuck on one channel. I suggested we used new remote control as it was supposed to be used, but of course he won't programme the viewing via that as he wouldn't be able to watch Now TV.

Am I being unreasonable to feel a bit fed up with him? I do, after all, pay for the subscriptions that I don't watch and I have said that if he wants to buy another TV and pay for the subscriptions himself I would be quite happy for him to watch his sport in another room. He didn't reply to that one!

Sorry if I don't know all the technical terms, but I do know that our son-in-law, when we first bought the TV, programmed it so that we could watch programmes in super HD with just one remote control for all functions but when DH found that he couldn't access Now TV he asked for it to be accessed via our old remote control with a not-so-good picture and sound.