Sara, my mother did once state that she 'really dropped the ball on that one' (teaching us domestic skills). So I think she's thought it over. Fortunately someone else did teach me to clean so I was well equipped when I had a home of my own to care for.
My mother's house is immaculate though and I've also made sure to not be like her in that regard. She was always cleaning and tidying and I'd rather spend more time with my kids. Before I had kids my home was also immaculate. If I think of my mother the first thing that pops into my mind is of her cleaning. I clean and cook every day, but I don't keep things perfect. I remember visiting with my child when she was a toddler. We were going to go to the zoo. I wanted to go at 10am so that my child wouldn't get tired and cranky. No-one was allowed to go anywhere until she had vacuumed the house (that didn't need it anyway). I'd have gone to the zoo then vacuumed. I should have just gone and told her 'meet you there when you're ready'. There has to be some sort of balance.
Harry and Meghan ‘royal’ tour of Nigeria.
Good Morning Monday 29th April 2024