You are not the unreasonable one, they are!!
They need to know that your son and his DP can do things their own way, when they're ready to. But I get the feeling they haven't let go of their 'child' and the child is still hanging onto the apron strings, in which case your son may be allowing them to do things 'their way' in order to keep the peace!
Also, it may be their way of trying to help out knowing their child doesn't pay anything (which DP really should, as it is a partnership).
I think you should make time with your son to discuss what's happening, and this is not interfering. Tell him you're worried he's being taken advantage of and you'd like his views on the situation. He may want some help but not know who to ask, or how!
He may welcome your views, but he could also just tell you you're overreacting, but you definitely need to have a personal chat with him!!
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