I was a single Mum for a lot of years and after being burned by previous partners I decided I didn’t need a man for anything
I had a decent job, a home and beautiful daughter, I could do all my own diy, from decorating to plumbing and tiling to building interior walls.
And I was very happy.
But in 2002 I had a cancer scare and it actually made me reassess my life, did I really want to spend my whole life on my own (my daughter would eventually grow up and live her own life.
I joined a dating site as I’m not a drinker etc so don’t go to pubs or clubs, didn’t do hobbies as I’d never leave my daughter with anyone except family.
So it was the only way to meet someone.
I had contacts from a few men, some idiots and only after one thing, a couple were really nice but there was no “spark”
Then a lovely guy contacted me. He gave me his phone number as he didn’t want me giving my number out so I could feel safe. We spoke for hours that night.
We met up one night for a drink somewhere busy ( again his care for me )
I just “knew” he was my “one”
We dated for a month, we moved in together although I kept my flat on for 6 months just in case.
He says the day he spoke to me on that first call, he told his parents “I’m going to marry that girl”
We have been together 19 years now and married for 16.
He is my soul mate, my best friend. And I am his.
You have to be very careful on these sites and be sensible.
But there is happy endings some times