Calendargirl
Reading through all this, I honestly cannot imagine just why nowadays people want big wedding dos.
Many of you are saying how expensive weddings are to hold, not just for the bride and groom, but for any guests attending.
Have a small intimate ‘do’, and use the money saved for something really worthwhile, a honeymoon, deposit for a property, things for said property, instead of wasting it on a huge blown up day, attended by guests who, if B&G are fortunate enough to still be together for their silver wedding, have probably lost touch with most of them.
I’m not sure all who have large parties wanted them. I certainly didn’t, however I was told x, y, z MUST be invited. So many might be like I was a forced into it.
I’m firmly in the camp of the bride and groom should have who they want.
I must admit, I was slightly envious of many Covid brides who were able to have the tiny weddings they wanted without any family push back. They were so happy to have a reason to make it small