To think there is nothing wrong with being a 'home bird'

I moved away from home over 40 years ago and would be delighted to move back, but DD2 lives close by , so no chance.
I keep up with old friends and family on FB but I wish I could just pop round to see them in person.
I have a cousin who moved 1 mile away from her childhood home and is still there, never been abroad and never wanted to learn to drive, I don’t understand that, but each to his or her own.

I have a friend who has always lived in her home town and she knows everybody. I went out shopping with her once and it took ages as she stopped to talk to everybody she knew. She has moved out now but still works and looks after her uncle in her home town. I was quite envious of her as I wouldnt know anyone from where I grew up.

I have a dear friend whose daughter has married into my family so I’ve been working on her family tree. The family has lived in the town for generations and in the local area since the 1500s. They are not alone, there are many similar ‘local’ families and they’re a wonderful repository of local knowledge.

I think in that kind of pandemic, I would just take the risk rather than going clubbing every night Galaxy!

Peasblossom is spot on, we often find it difficult to understand that people think differently to ourselves. We should all be watchful of this. During lockdown I found it quite difficult to understand some of my colleagues who couldnt cope with not being able to go into the office, I found some empathy by imagining if we had a pandemic that necessitated me going clubbing every night.

There is nothing wrong with being a home bird - either definition.

Absolutely nothing wrong with preferring to be at home.
Everyone should live how they feel comfortable with.

Live and let live i say.

I’ve enjoyed travelling, but I’d love to be a home bird and live nearer my sisters who are home birds. FaceTime and WhatsApp has made it easier, but they meet up more than I can.

My parents moved to the commuter village when I was 14, they moved abroad with my sister some years later. For the last 50 years I have had a home here despite travelling the world, working abroad etc. Parents moved back just down the road (now deceased)

I see friends from school out and about, their children went to school with our children and now it’s our grandchildren at the same school, three of our children live here. I like the feeling of continuity.

So yes I am a home bird but one that likes to spread her wings in the knowledge that my nest is waiting for me when I return.

i thought a home bird was soemone who didnt want to go out to parties or join in outside activities
someone who likes to potter within the confines of their house

We live in a village where quite a few families have lived for generations. Their extended families also tend to live in the same village. To me they seem some of the most contented people I have met and I envy them. They have roots, friends they have had since childhood and a real sense of place.

Nothing wrong with it at all. Must be lovely to be firmly rooted in a community.

I am very envious of those who have lived in the same area all their lives. I have travelled around a lot moving from place to place. The consequence is that my friends and family are scattered.

Because some people want others to live the way they live and think the way they do. They haven’t quite managed to see the world through any eyes except their own.

But then the home birds are often quite disparaging about people who like to travel?

I know what you mean, and I personally don't see anything derogatory about it. Just because someone is a 'home bird' doesn't mean they've not necessarily led an adventurous or fulfilling life. I still live in the family home I grew up in - now my grandson is here, it's the fourth generation of our family to live here. My husband is also from my home village - does that make us dull and boring? I don't think it does...