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Marmight Thu 28-Oct-21 09:17:39

?. I visited my local Dobbies Garden Centre on Tuesday for plants. I could hardly locate them between the rows of hundreds & hundreds of newly cut Christmas trees. Who buys a Christmas tree in October? A friend suggested, tongue in cheek, that they were being off loaded before Christmas is cancelled by Boris

B9exchange Fri 29-Oct-21 16:59:26

Like M0nica we buy ours in early December from a Christmas Tree farm near my daughter's house. I like the biggest one that will fit in the living room, and love the look of awe on the GCs faces when they see it. It was a bit of a waste last year, Christmas cancelled with five days notice, so will probably go to town this year!

Elizabeth27 Fri 29-Oct-21 16:28:38

I am not a Christmas person so do not have a tree at all but for those that are they can keep it up all year if that’s what they want.

It does not affect anyone else, if they get pleasure from it then why not?

BridgetPark Fri 29-Oct-21 16:20:42

Thanks PippaZ, its great fun to do as well!!

PippaZ Fri 29-Oct-21 15:15:31

That sounds lovely Bridget.

BridgetPark Fri 29-Oct-21 14:45:51

I gave up on xmas trees last year. Instead i have a largish coffee table, with a winter scene. I have carol singers, skaters, skiers, a little post box, lots of snow covered cottages, a church up on a hill, a large outdoor tree with lights on and children running around. It looks magical, and my gc love it. I will buy a couple of extra things for this year that they will be thrilled to discover. I store it all under my bed, and i do prefer it to the main tree in the lounge. I still have a little tree in the porch, along with a statue of The Snowman figure from the film. Each to their own i suppose, whatever makes it magical for you and your family is what counts.

annodomini Fri 29-Oct-21 14:35:55

My ex was (perhaps still is) Mr Scrooge, so putting up the Christmas tree wasn't a big deal. In the long years since my divorce, I have rarely been at home for Christmas. Nowadays, my sons' families always make me welcome and I'm happy to join in with the preparations in their homes. It's been lovely to see my GC as they've grown into their teens and early adult-hood. But I do have a small artificial tree which can be seen in my side window by motorists as they drive past, on the two weeks before I set off.

kittylester Fri 29-Oct-21 14:27:16

(((Hugs))) marmight.

Marmight Fri 29-Oct-21 11:32:44

Interesting views.
We always had a big real tree which went up around 20 December. I have a lovely photo of my then 2 year old GD ‘decorating’ it with my late DH. It was his last Christmas so a very special time. Since downsizing considerably and alone I’ve invested in a smallish artificial tree which has only been up once as Ive been away for 3 out of the 4 christmases Ive been in my small cottage so not much point in decorating. I may buy a real one this year in a pot for the garden. I used to love all the Christmas preparations but of late find no joy in it and can’t wait to get back to ‘normal’. Am I turning into Mrs Scrooge? ?
Oh to turn back the clock ……,

Witzend Fri 29-Oct-21 10:44:56

biglouis

Im not a fan of christmas and real trees in particular are so sad. I hate the way they are treated, artificial ones are the way to go and they make no mess.

Real trees are a crop, like any other, and such fast growing trees use up a lot of Co2 while they are growing. And at least they’re biodegradable - many are mulched to be used in parks and gardens.

PippaZ Fri 29-Oct-21 10:37:01

If they are the same Christmas films I'm watching Redhead I see them as good therapy - just like the "Cosy Murders" I read. They take you on a journey where all comes out well in the end. It will help against the disequilibrium we are all prone to at times like this.
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Thanks for the information Kitty. I love the idea that they are not cut down. Mine is an artificial one these days. My strangest feelings are joining (by video) my sons family Christmas in the middle of summer in Australia - with Christmas Tree grin

Redhead56 Fri 29-Oct-21 08:58:05

I always got a real tree from Delamere forest and put it up second week in December. When the grandchildren were born I bought a beautiful snowy artificial tree from Dobbies and it goes up 1st of December. I absolutely love the house decorated I started watching Christmas films two weeks ago.

cornergran Fri 29-Oct-21 08:38:07

We use a white, pre lit twiggy tree. It will be in the conservatory by the end of November, earlier than usual. . There has much sadness for us this year, the twinkling lights will literally lighten the darkness.

Zoejory Fri 29-Oct-21 08:25:47

My tree is going up in my hall today. We have our lovely little niece visiting. She has multiple health issues and spends a lot of time in hospital. I know she'll be thrilled.

There are many reasons why people might decorate early.

kittylester Fri 29-Oct-21 08:17:39

Sorry pippa should have said the £70 includes delivery, collection and a tub to stand the pot in.

kittylester Fri 29-Oct-21 07:33:50

pippa, it comes in a pot with soil and is collected and replanted. It costs the same as a similarly sized cut one. This year it is 5 feet tall and cost £70.

biglouis Fri 29-Oct-21 00:50:49

Im not a fan of christmas and real trees in particular are so sad. I hate the way they are treated, artificial ones are the way to go and they make no mess.

Hetty58 Fri 29-Oct-21 00:35:09

MissAdventure, I don't like all the tree faff either. Last year's is growing in a pot outside - so maybe I'll just pop some lights on it and leave it there.

nanna8 Fri 29-Oct-21 00:19:32

One of our old Christmas trees is now around 30-40 foot high. Lovely tree , we only planted it out on a wing and a prayer not really thinking it would ‘take’.

MissAdventure Thu 28-Oct-21 23:10:29

I used to leave everything on my tree; lights, decs, the lot.
Then I'd straighten the branches a bit and taadaa! All done.

Zoejory Thu 28-Oct-21 23:06:45

A friend of mine, somewhat eccentric had a real tree in her home for over 2 years. All the needles dropped. The lights were still twinkling away. I did ask if she'd like help taking it down but she was quite happy about it.

MissAdventure Thu 28-Oct-21 23:00:21

I know I'm a misery guts, but the tree is one of the things I dislike the most about christmas. blush
All that fannying around, and still hovering up glitter in July!

PippaZ Thu 28-Oct-21 22:54:56

kittylester

We rent our Christmas tree which I booked a couple of weeks ago.

Does it have roots and get returned to the ground kitty?

Jaxjacky Thu 28-Oct-21 21:33:16

Live Christmas in this house, hopefully, back to having DD and GC’s staying over Christmas Eve. Our real tree will either be from the Forestry Commission, pre cut, or dug ourselves, it’s hard work!
But as others have said Marmight, trees cut now are doomed, it’s not good and almost fraudulent selling as not fit for purpose.
The name gives a clue, the tree should be useable over the Christmas period.

Beswitched Thu 28-Oct-21 20:33:13

Can't quote your last post for some reason @witzend, but some of those 'moaners' may have very real reasons for finding the lengthening of the Christmas season difficult eg the bereaved, the lonely, the poor, those far away from family.
Obviously the world can't stop for them, but wishing Christmas wasn't shoved in their faces from late October doesn't equate to being a 'moaner'.

rafichagran Thu 28-Oct-21 19:20:23

My sons birthday is 18th December, we decorated the tree on that day as he loved his birthday being near and part of Christmas.
I have always had a real tree, it is magical, especially with white lights and all the tree decorations I have accumulated over the years.
I do put the tree up on the 12th December now my son is grown up and left home. It's the joy of choosing it as well.