A friend has self published a book and is working very hard to sell it. A number of us (13) in a hobby group have bought the book and will be meeting to discuss our hobby. Friend has asked if we could give her our opinions of her book at this meeting. She has said she wants an honest opinion, good or bad. Here’s the problem, most of us found the book boring! It’s far too long, there’s lots of irrelevant information in it etc. I’m being asked by other group members what they should say. Whether she really wants them to be honest or if she would be upset with any negative feedback. She is also asking us to review the book on various platforms and the most anyone said is ‘loved it’. She is writing her second book now and I know she has invested a lot financially into this first book, and so don’t know what to say to her that won’t hurt her feelings but may help her with her second book.
What would you do?
Is it rude to not finish a book club choice that was selected by someone else?
Instant coffee….advice needed.


