My Daughter Lied

If your daughter is an adult then she can speak and socialize with anyone she wants.
I would never think of telling my grown up children who they could or couldn't associate with.

She 'said she would block her from Facebook' - but hasn't yet. That doesn't make her a liar.

She may simply have forgotten what she said, or just hasn't got around to it yet. As others have said, just ignore it and concentrate on getting well, that's the important thing.

I wouldn't confront your daughter as that could lead to a breakdown of your relationship with her.
Now that you know she is still in contact with this friend take care what you share with your daughter incase the friend still talks to your daughter about you. You can protect your privacy now you have the knowledge.

Agree with VioketSky and others who say let this go and concentrate on your relationship with your daughter

I understand you are hurt but of all the possible reasons your daughter is still friends with this person, there are none to assume your daughter is trying to hurt you.

She could not have known that circumstances would arise where you were able to see this activity on someone else's facebook. Even if she has made the decision to remain friends with this person.

I think you need to let this go, you are obviously going through a lot. As long as your relationship with your daughter is positive I wouldn't worry.

Can't add any more to Shelflife's post. I too wish you well.

Forget Face book!!!! Your daughters activity on FB is her business. Please stay out of it and concentrate on your relationship with your daughter. Concentrate on your health, I wish you well for your forthcoming operation.

this may sound silly but your daughter may not have blocked her so she can see what your friend has been saying, some people do this, i have facebook but only family on mine, i use it as i have been ill over the last three years and it is a quick way to get in touch with them as they are usually on there phones. i never say anything bad about anyone on facebook, if i needed to confront anybody who said anything about me then i do it with a phonecall. don't bother if your daughter lied, does she know how to block someone or has she clicked the button that says hide messages from this person. stop thinking about and leave it alone.

I’ve never had a problem with FB either.

Concentrate on getting better and stop being so cross, most daughters tell fibs at some stage or another, often just to get their mothers off their backs, not all mothers snoop onto their FB pages ‘accidentally of course’ to check up on them.
Your daughter might have just unfollowed your ex friend, but it really isn’t your problem.

Sago FB is every bit as good as WhatsApp, well a lot better as there is a lot you can use it for I ve been on it about 14 years and never ever had a problem Like anything it’s how you use it It’s extremely useful for many things including local groups, news, selling, projects, local history etc etc

JeanneLeFol thank you

Smileless2012 - You are absolutely right.

It really is none of your business who is on your daughters friends list and who isn’t ! She may have thought she took her off I ve done that before now or she may not have wanted to but certainly didn’t want a confrontation with you about it
By your earlier answer on here at 15.11 I didn’t !!! Don’t you read you come across as short tempered and very feisty
so perhaps she didn’t want a lecture from you
You look after your Fb page and let your daughter look after hers as she sees fit absolutely nothing to do with you at all

Concentrate on getting better maybe things have become over exaggerated in your mind because you are unwell

Please delete Facebook and contact friends and family using what’s app.
FB is the root of a lot discord.

Your daughter is an adult. Who she has on her FB is none of your concern.

As to why she may not have blocked the person, there's several possible reasons: she may have simply wanted to end the conversation, she may have forgotten, she may have changed her mind, she may not have wanted to argue with you about it.

None of which she's obligated to explain or justify. It's her social media, she can do as she pleases.

Definitely do your best to put it all on one side while you're in hospital and try not to worry. It seems like a mountain, but in the bigger picture its a molehill, you are more important to your daughter than the other person. There will be an explanation, but for now concentrate on yourself. Things like this can feel so painful, and you need to focus on getting better.
It will all come out in the wash

My sister had some evil traits for which I broke contact with her. My daughter was very aware of my sisters character but never sopped seeing her.
I just accepted that their relationship was nothing to do with our relationship.
I assume your daughter is an adult? Treat her as such. It’s nothing to do with you who she is in contact with.

Grannannan

I agree. I wasn’t on Facebook my visiting friend showed me something on fb which is how I saw my Daughter has lied to me It’s dishonest it hurts. I have no idea why she lied. It was her idea to block this awful woman. Why lie

Well, the visiting friend should have stayed out of it. Ignore FB, and just concentrate on getting well.

Your daughter can be FB friends with whoever she wants to, to be honest.

Yes I can read Grannannan but I missed your other post and TBH if your post @ 15.11 is an example of how you respond to people, I'm not surprised your D may be doing something she thinks you'll disapprove of, without telling you.

What a load of nonsense.
Take Facebook out of all this and no problem would exist.

We sometimes expect a lot from our friends and relatives. We expect them to do as they said for example.
I too would probably feel hurt, but she has her reasons.
Dont loose her over what is essentially a problem with your friend.
As you say if confronted she will stop contact. So bite and bite your tongue again.
Your relationship with your d matters more than her and this person's face book status.

Wishing you a quick recovery

From what you have written she said she would block her not that she had. So perhaps she isa priority for your daughter and she just hasn’t got round to doing it? Perhaps she is more concerned with your serious operation?

I didn’t !!! Don’t you read.
It was her choice not mine

Why should I do that when it’s the main way I get to keep in contact with family who live in USA & Australia

It is your daughter's FB, not your page

You cannot tell her whom she can have as friends.