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Daisy79
May I ask about one particular phrasing I’ve never understood? Why do Brits say “fell pregnant?” It sounds like an illness or accident.
I never heard this until I was in my 20s. (A long time ago, obviously!). People used to say ‘expecting a baby’, or similar.
To be frank my mother would have put ‘fall pregnant’ in the same category* as ‘a bun in the oven’, or what an adult nephew once said to his elder sister - ‘I hear you’re up the duff again.’ ?
*to her, vulgar if not decidedly ‘common’.
Funnily enough, my American niece on a previous visit loved ‘up the duff’’, especially when spoken in her cousin’s northern accent - ‘Oop the doof’. Said she was going to import it to the US!
Conversely, I haven't heard it since I was quite young. It was commonplace (but not, as I remember it, 'common') amongst older women when I was a child, but seems to have fallen* out of use since.
I thought it was connected to 'the fall' - Eve's luring of Adam into Bad Ways, as it was used for married women as well as the girls who miraculously 'got themselves pregnant'.
*see what I did there??