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It is I believe on.y the 18/11 but I have just seen my first Christmas tree in a house.?

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Sago Thu 18-Nov-21 18:05:20

We have always put a tree up 7-10 days before Christmas.

A few years ago we started seeing trees up early December.

My DIL told me it’s now a thing whereby the decorations are put up on the 1st of December or the closest weekend to the 1st.

AIBU or a Scrooge?

It’s far too early.

highlanddreams Fri 19-Nov-21 10:39:27

If it makes them happy then why not, people like to make their own choices and their own traditions, if you don't like them, then don't look! My decs will go up when I can find time to get them out of the loft which will be sometime in December, no specific date and not to please anyone but us.

Maad Fri 19-Nov-21 10:43:04

Dismal weather,dismal year why not add bit of glitz and glitter to life. I put tree up early last year my mum loved it so glad I did she died not long after and did not see Christmas.

msamaranth Fri 19-Nov-21 10:45:22

I have a friend who’s had hers up since Christmas last year, that would drive me mad but it does make everyone smile. First time in about 8 years I’m having one this year, as we will have a two year old in residence

Teacheranne Fri 19-Nov-21 10:49:27

Normally my tree, if I bother to put one up, is not set up until a week or so before Christmas. But I’ve bought a new pre lit one this year and it was delivered last week and I had to open the box to check it was intact and working. As I basically very lazy, after taking hours to put it together and “fluff” up the branches, I can’t be bothered putting it back in the box so it is in situ in my conservatory but not decorated or switched on!

Theoddbird Fri 19-Nov-21 10:50:48

I saw potted Christmas trees for sale in Sainsbury's yesterday. My youngest daughter puts her tree up on 1st December. I don't think about trees etc until week before Christmas.

TanaMa Fri 19-Nov-21 10:53:24

I have received 2 Christmas cards already. Have written mine but, other than the overseas ones, won't post them until December.
It was always the handed down family tradition that the Christmas tree was put up and decorated after the children went to bed on Christmas Eve. It was part of the magic of our Christmas, together with Santa's mince pie and sherry and a carrot for Rudolph. Santa, with big white beard and red robe, always appeared while parcels being opened so not too much notice it was Grandad!!
As I live alone now I don't decorate but love to remember those happy days, especially as my late husband was the biggest kid of all!!
Wishing everyone an early Happy Christmas.???

LeeN137 Fri 19-Nov-21 10:53:33

IF I put any decorations up, it won't be before the 1st of December. To me, any earlier just means you get used to them, so they don't feel as special, in the run-up.

Also, my lights are almost exclusively battery-operated, with some being on built-in 6-hour timers, so I don't have to recharge/change them every few days.

I have a niece, who proudly showed off hers being up a week or two back, on Facebook. It makes her happy, so I'm fine with it.

It's the shops admonishing us to 'think about Christmas' before Halloween and Bonfire Night are out of the way that gets me.

bongobil Fri 19-Nov-21 10:56:16

EAch to their own, I wouldnt put my tree and decorations up just yet probably first week of December oops is that too early?

MooM00 Fri 19-Nov-21 11:04:02

I don’t have any decorations or tree up yet that happens 2nd week in December. I have got all my Christmas gifts for family, grandchildren and friends all done and wrapped. This is because I have broken my ankle and while I have been unable to go out for the last 8 weeks I found I had become a bit too keen on the internet shopping.

Juicylucy Fri 19-Nov-21 11:10:53

I stick with the tradition, 12 days before, 12 days after. That’s plenty enough for me.

win Fri 19-Nov-21 11:13:55

We have had our first Xmas dinner with crackers, Father Christmas chocolates and everything to go with it. It was lovely and much enjoyed by all 63 members. There will be lots more to come with other Clubs but in December.

sazz1 Fri 19-Nov-21 11:18:29

We went Xmas shopping yesterday and picked up a tree growing in a pot. It will stay in the garden until 23rd December, come in for Xmas, then out of the house on 27th and in the garden until next year. Can't stand decorations in the house until just before Xmas.
As a child all decorations went up Xmas Eve after I was asleep. Was a lovely surprise Xmas morning.

RosesAreRed21 Fri 19-Nov-21 11:19:42

A house a few roads from us is all lit up inside and outside already. Also about 3 people on my FB have had theirs up nearly a week know

Annaram1 Fri 19-Nov-21 11:20:40

We used to host foreign students. One year we had 2 young Japanese girls. They were Christian so understood what Christmas meant. We let them decorate the tree. They were overjoyed. At home they had a tree but were not allowed to decorate it. Their parents did that.

Katek Fri 19-Nov-21 11:26:59

I saw my first Xmas decorations on 17th October driving home from visit to ds and family. Far too early- hadn’t even had Halloween! When the children were small we didn’t decorate until after 18/12 as that was dd2’s birthday. We just felt it was unfair for her birthday to get lost in Xmas celebrations. However, when her brother arrived on 29/12 we abandoned efforts to keep their birthdays separate from Xmas. Could have planned that better, couldn’t I?gringrin

Nannan2 Fri 19-Nov-21 11:29:05

I was always told when growing up we shouldn't sing carols or put up decs before advent (4 sundays before christmas) as it was bad luck, probably started as a religious thing, but as my mum was also superstitious we adhered to that, (but now the christmas movies start in august i keep wanting to burst into song)?But personally i put up tree & decs anytime ive got spare between december 1st - around 14th- but i know if i call to my 2 eldest DD's in next week or so i should expect either or both of them to have 'trimmed up' as we call it! Too early i think, but up to them i guess.I think advent sunday is 28th november this year.??

Hetty58 Fri 19-Nov-21 11:30:06

You can't dust a Christmas tree - so I wouldn't want one on display for weeks on end!

Nannan2 Fri 19-Nov-21 11:30:30

Or 'Stir up sunday' as its called, mostly by older generation i think.

singingnutty Fri 19-Nov-21 11:31:52

We shan't put our tree up in the house until about a week before Christmas Day but last year when Christmas was cancelled we did buy a tree in a pot and had it in the porch with battery lights. It has survived outside and so it will go in the porch again about 2 weeks before the day and also I love to have a holly wreath on the door so will have to buy that before they disappear from the market. Last year (remember how dismal it was in January?} there was a move locally to leave up lights to cheer everyone up, so I had solar lights up in the front bedroom window for quite a while. DH has today been down in the big church in town helping to set up the Christmas Tree Festival which is a bit earlier than usual because the Council decided to move the Christmas tree lighting up in the Square to this week. Much too early, but there you are! There are usually about 100 trees, but fewer this year. Nevertheless it makes a wonderful show and also some money for the Church in admission charges. They are sorely in need of that.

Nannan2 Fri 19-Nov-21 11:32:01

Hetty58- you could try hoover a fake tree i suppose, with an extention piece??

Nannan2 Fri 19-Nov-21 11:35:41

I'm surprised a church has agreed before advent singingnutty. Unless the light up is actually on 28th maybe?

nanna8 Fri 19-Nov-21 11:39:14

A house up at Campbell’s Creek near Castlemaine had all the Christmas lights blazing out in full glory. Mind you, they could have been leftovers from last year.

leeds22 Fri 19-Nov-21 11:40:24

I'll blow the dust off my twiggy Christmas tree around 20 December. We love our decorations as they have been bought on holidays and remind us of good times. Other than that, I'd be happy for it to come every four years too.

Purpledaffodil Fri 19-Nov-21 11:42:24

Because we were both teachers embroiled in end of term stuff, rule in our house was no decorations until we’d all broken up. As a result I suspect all three adult children like theirs up on December 1st at least.
But I’m sure part of the reason for the trend to early decorations currently is because it is something jolly and colourful after a miserable year.

Nannan2 Fri 19-Nov-21 11:42:39

Katek- one of my DD's takes down ALL the xmas decs at midnight christmas day & puts up birthday banners & balloons etc for my GD's boxing day birthday! (Which maybe is why she puts them up by advent?!) personally i think my GD would be just as happy if she left up the xmas decs too, and added her birthday ones as well, but she never does! ?