No idea why my other DD puts them up early though- i think she just likes them and little GD persuades her?
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We have always put a tree up 7-10 days before Christmas.
A few years ago we started seeing trees up early December.
My DIL told me it’s now a thing whereby the decorations are put up on the 1st of December or the closest weekend to the 1st.
AIBU or a Scrooge?
It’s far too early.
No idea why my other DD puts them up early though- i think she just likes them and little GD persuades her?
Once my DS left home I gave up with Christmas decorations. Started again when DGC came along but as they very rarely come to mine now I do not bother! The whole spirit of Christmas has been swamped by how soon & how much can we be made to spend. Too commercial now but do enjoy Christmas day watching DGC open their presents as day is usually spent with the Family!
I adore Christmas.
Personally I never put any decorations up before somewhere around the 21st December. Before that I am far too busy with other preperations such as cleaning and baking.
However, I enjoy seeing others' decorations up.
Why spoil Christmas for yourselves by grousing over when other people put their decorations up or take them down?
Im in a quandary this year, as im trying to find a new house-(rental) and if anything comes available it would be great to move before christmas, but if it doesn't, when do i bother to trim up? Might just do the tree and put up a couple of xmas banners if it gets to middle of december with no move on horizon.mostly everything's in boxes ready just in case anyway?
I think i read somewhere about someone who leaves theirs up the whole year round? That would get on my nerves eventually i think, much as i love christmas.?
Live and let live eh! It's not for me but I who am I to have an opinion on what others do.
Happy Christmas
I think I’ll cull my Christmas decorations this year when I get them out, I have far too many baubles, stuffed toys and lights which never get used. I always look at them and think I might get creative one year and use them to make something but I know I never will!
Tizliz
I remember as a child that my father brought the tree home on Christmas Eve and it was decorated after we children had gone to bed. It was a delight to come down to it on Christmas Day
When my children were born Christmas began Christmas day too! After they were in bed we decorated the tree and the room and the presents came out, and all the kids enjoyed waking up in the morning to it all.
There were no Christmas Eve boxes or anything like that, the only Christmassy thing before the day was an advent calendar to count it all down. So much better than a long drawn out Christmas with no surprises on the day.
Hopefully this ties in with this thread and the one about the 5-year old and his new sibling. My son was born in June and his sister was 3. One day a few weeks after his birth my wonderful aunt and uncle did ‘Christmas’ for my daughter. They put up an artificial tree, made a special dinner and got her and her brother some small presents. She was delighted because Christmas is very slow to come when you’re little and she was made to feel very special. Christmas can be about magical kindness and doesn’t have to be in December. I will never forget how kind my aunt and uncle were to us all.
A lovely couple who live on the end of our road are all lit up for Christmas and it looks wonderful. When you come home on a dark, damp night it really makes you smile!
I've seen a lot when I've been walking the dog, gardens with Santas and reindeer all lit up too. This morning I got the news my electric supplier is putting my electric up yet again by 21% so I'd hate to see the bills some of these folk will receive with all the lights. I'm sure I sound like a Scrooge, but my tree will wait a while yet.
Try not to be too judgemental with early christmas trees, you never know the reason. Our neighbours’ young daughter was diagnosed with leukaemia a few years ago and their tree was up in mid November because their daughter had been discharged from hospital to spend her last few days at home. They decorated the house with lights, put up the tree and had a small family Christmas party for her. She died at the beginning of December and her mum said later that the last ‘Christmas’ had given their daughter a lot of joy and provided them with memories they would treasure.
With an early December birthday, I would prefer the tree to go up one week before Christmas but my husband likes it earlier so we put it up the weekend after my birthday. My oldest son is autistic and went to a special school. However, he lives independently in his own flat. He has always been obsessed by Christmas carols and trees, particularly lights. He has two trees - one in his hall and one in his living room and both are covered in lights. He also has lights on his living room and bedroom ceilings and a flashing disco light. The Blackpool Illuminations have nothing on these! They have been up since last week. It would not be my cup of tea but it makes him happy.
Sainsbury's have been selling real Christmas trees for the past 2 weeks here in Aberdeen.
The rule in our house is always no Christmas trees or decorations until after my younger daughters birthday on the 8th Dec. That is still the rule in the family although my daughter is now 51..
I don't blame people who want to bring on the Christmas cheer a bit early. It's been a rough time for many
I try not to be judgemental about people who put their tree etc up so early, but I do feel that the earlier you do it, the more it somehow 'devalues' the magic of Christmas. Mind you, I am a self-confessed 'bah humbug' who hates Christmas and always has done, even as a child, so what do I know?
Sorry Calendargirl, I do know how many days in November, honest! 
Yes, they are written and ready, although sadly not homemade this year, due to me having lost my Christmas mojo ( Mum passed away in June). Hopefully next year it will return.
Take care x
I don’t understand why so many people are being judgmental about other peoples choices in their own homes. Surely if someone wants to leave their decorations up all year, that is entirely their business. Why does no one complain about people who don’t put decorations or trees up at all.
Supermarkets on the other hand who are using Christmas as a marketing ploy are fair game for criticism.
Someone the end of our road has their Christmas tree up.
I ordered my cards last weekend and I thought I'd ordered 3 packs of 10 but I'd actually ordered 3 lots of 3 packs of 10
I don't think I know that many people!
I have fairy lights up all year round by the way. I suppose people may think they are Christmas decorations?
@JaneJudge. I must admit I have fairy lights up all year round too. I have two sets of frilly ones in the bedroom strung around the headboard and mirrors,and - inspired by Nigella - I have a couple of sets of white pinhead lights in the kitchen. They give the place a warm glow.
Don’t they gather dust?
I have lights in my garden all year they are very pretty. I used to put tree up two weeks before Christmas but now the 1st of December. It’s nice for the grandchildren and for me the biggest kid of them all it lifts my spirit in gloomy winter.
Germanshepherdsmum
Don’t they gather dust?
I know this is a novel idea but I clean them 
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