My husband and I exchange, “Remind me to…” pretty frequently. It’s for stuff like adding to the grocery list, to check for something in the basement, etc
Appointments get put on calendars.
I have had friends ask me to remind them and vice versa, but that’s more of a, “if I don’t contact you, reach out.” thing. It’s taken (and meant) as a shorthand way of saying a reminder isn’t a bother.
That said, if I was constantly reminding someone, doing all the emotional labour, I’d give it up as a bad job. Balance is the key, imo
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