Serendipity22
OP has not been backed into any corner and she most certainly has not disappeared....
I find the way your posts are accusing me are beyond belief and so for that reason i simply can not be arsed to continue with my thread.
Well done Germanshepherd you know how to bark and snap people away .......
I'm not accusing you of anything other than being very economical with the truth and leading people on and enjoying their sympathy based on a false representation of your situation.
You first presented yourself as a woman unable to work through ill health whose husband kept all his savings and pension income to himself, just giving you £100 a month for what you called 'spends'. That's the post people see and reply to, ignoring what came out later. They all see you as a victim of financial abuse and many have suggested you seek legal advice and divorce him. You haven't sought to correct them at any stage.
You then said you received £100 a month in benefits too, so £200 a month to spend as you wish, as you also said in a later post that your husband paid for the food and all the bills.
It also came out that the house is in your name only, but people just reading your first post didn't spot that and continued to give you their heartfelt sympathy. What a surprise that your husband considers his savings and income to be his when you haven't put the house into joint names. We don't know how much of his income your husband has left after he's paid for the food, bills, given you £100 a month and put something aside for tax not deducted at source. Maybe not a lot. Maybe less than your £200. Nor do we know what savings you have and keep to yourself. Did you only inherit the house or did you perhaps inherit money too?
You repeatedly said you had no idea why you had received this cheque for compensation for loss of power. You gave the impression of being completely bewildered and not knowing what to do with it. But you have said your husband can't do emails and everything about the electricity 'comes through to your phone', pretending to be clueless about the whole thing; a few other things 'come through on your phone' as well I expect if yours is the only email address. It's blindingly obvious that the electricity account is in your name though your husband pays the bills, yet you continue to insist you have no idea why you have this cheque. I have put it to you several times that the account is in your name but you don't respond to that and continue to latch on to people's suggestions that perhaps you have the cheque because you own the house. You know exactly why you have the cheque and your only dilemma is whether to keep the money or give it to your husband as he pays the electricity bills. You know full well the right, honest thing to do.
People have repeatedly said that half the savings belongs to you and advise you to get a divorce as you are being financially abused. You know that a divorce would mean your husband getting half the value of the house and that may well be worth a lot more than half his savings, but you don't seek to correct them, do you?
I've kept on accusing you, as you put it, because you're spinning a yarn to people who give you sympathy and advice in all good faith and you're enjoying all the misplaced attention they give you. Now you say you 'can't be arsed' to continue with the thread. In other words, no you won't admit the lies I've called you out on. May I suggest that you should never have started it in the first place?
