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I recently bought 2 multi packs of knickers from a well-known store, in a style and size I've worn for years.
They didn't seem to fit right. Theres not enough material in the back and way too much stretchy material in the front.
I've compared them with my older pairs (5 years old and more) and there is now definitely more material in the crotch area! (almost a pouchy effect on some of the pairs, a bit like men's underpants
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I went online to read some of the reviews and there are male people raving about these knickers, saying that "there's enough room for men to wear them" basically they can fit their their male bits in them.
Aibu for being shocked that even women's underwear is now under attack?
So now we have to wear saggy, pouchy underwear, just because transwomen might get upset if there isn't enough room for them to fit their junk in?
(most transwomen these days don't have bottom surgery and choose to keep their male penises and testicles). I'm not sure if many Gransnetters are aware of that)
Aibu to think there should be a separate section for transwomens underwear?
Manufacturersshould not be changing and messing around with women's underware and shoving extra material into areas that have no need of extra material.
Why do women always have to budge up to accommodate others?
I'm prepared to be told to shut up and #bekind.
Which is what usually happens.
Oh and I would have put this in Feminism if we had such a section.
Maw ????
Riverwalk
Yep, M&S 'short length' jeans are now at least 2" too long.
That explains a lot
I thought my legs were being worn down and feared that I might end up like a dachshund!
Just an observation. In my experience anything "new and improved" is usually a disappointment. I wish things could stay the same for a while so that I could catch up with life in general. 
Yep, M&S 'short length' jeans are now at least 2" too long.
I don’t see why the OP should go elsewhere to buy her favourite knickers M&S have changed the design of my favourite bra. Should I strop and insist they remake it in my preferred style? Or do what I had to do and look elsewhere?
They stopped doing my favourite altogether, no response to enquiries so I do feel very stroppy! Unfortunately I can't find a similar one that fits as well anywhere.
A bit difficult to return unsatisfactory pants as, presumably, they'll have been tried on and stores won't want them back. How to tell if they don't fit though?
I've noticed M&S sizes changing recently. My trusty trousers in a style and size I've worn for years needed replaced and suddenly my usual length is 4 inches too long. Very annoying but at least I could return them. I don't think I'm four inches shorter unless Covid vaccine has this unusual side effect?!
I don’t see why the OP should go elsewhere to buy her favourite knickers M&S have changed the design of my favourite bra. Should I strop and insist they remake it in my preferred style? Or do what I had to do and look elsewhere?
For a shop to change its pants so that 50.9% of their customers don't want them but 1% do is either very foolish or very odd.
A bit like this thread really.
Storm in a gusset innit? Which sounds a LOT more exciting than it really is.
I haven't read the entire thread but what I have read (first half-ish) I have enjoyed. Well done, snowberry, for raising the issue when people are getting "cancelled" for merely pointing out biological facts.
Coastpath
In the UK 50.9% of the population of the UK are female and I believe 1% of the population identify as trans.
For a shop to change its pants so that 50.9% of their customers don't want them but 1% do is either very foolish or very odd.
A bit like this thread really.
But you needed (well, used) this thread to say your foolish bit. Sorry, to join in the foolishness, I mean. ?
I’ve just bought loads of lacy knickers from m'ns and I thought they were rather skimpy so I don’t think they are the ones being written about,unless I’ve put on weight in strange places. I would have thought transmen would be more upmarket.
If I can get my bum off this chair I'm off to M&S to return a pack of knickers that I bought in four sizes too big!
I'll be on the look out so don't accidentally buy tackle-accommodating drawers.
As has been said, why not feminise male underwear.
its sainsburys full briefs isn't it? I agree they have changed the cut. They are really tight on my bum but loose at the front
I wanted a dress at Christmas and I waited for it to be reduced and I was left in the unfortunate situation that lots of men had bought it and posted photos of themselves in it (they looked like men not transwomen fwiw) and I decided not to buy it
The larger gussets in some M&S knickers are to catch leaks.
If men have periods they could be ideal.
Has anyone asked M&S about this or taken the pants back and told them why? It does seem an odd marketing strategy, however, as I have had problems getting a bra that fits from them even though I was buying the same type, maybe they are changing everything as some mad post covid exercise.
You have a perfect right to raise this if you have found a change in the product. I know how annoying that can be when something you have been happily buying for years is suddenly different and not in a good way. Any chance you can post a link to this product? It would be helpful to see the item.
"Calling someone foolish is a cowardly way to try and end a discussion."
Calling someone "a woke idiot designer" is a lazy way to dismiss an entire ethos.
I didn't call anyone foolish. I called the thread foolish.
Yes Why not feminise more of the male underwear?
That's not going to happen.
The pants arent drastically different.
There's a bit more stretch and a bit more material.
But enough for a previously loyal customer to notice the change.
Calling someone foolish is a cowardly way to try and end a discussion.
I don’t see why the OP should go elsewhere to buy her favourite knickers , and I don’t agree that there is lots of choice unless you like low cut ones. They all vary in comfort and fit and when you find some you like it’s annoying when the makers change the shape.Don’t trans women need a gap for speedy access as in men’s pants?couldn’t the makers feminise some male underwear instead?
In the UK 50.9% of the population of the UK are female and I believe 1% of the population identify as trans.
For a shop to change its pants so that 50.9% of their customers don't want them but 1% do is either very foolish or very odd.
A bit like this thread really.
FannyCornforth
I have seen many reviews about women’s knickers on the M&S website written by men, extolling their virtues.
The lacy ones in particular.
It’s been highlighted elsewhere.
It is definitely a thing.
Obviously some woke idiot designer is pandering to them and making their lacy pants more 'male friendl' More material and more stretchy in the front.
Like I said , they should have their own section.
snowberryZ, if you don't like the ones you're buying, buy others. It's a buyers market. If no one buys big gusset knickers, they'll stop making them.
Of course, there is the trend towards making period pants to use instead of sanitary protection. Maybe big gusset pants are a step in this direction?
I have seen many reviews about women’s knickers on the M&S website written by men, extolling their virtues.
The lacy ones in particular.
It’s been highlighted elsewhere.
It is definitely a thing.
Doodlebug, you mean like when they put a V on food packaging to indicate it's suitable for vegans?goes through bin to check packaging for giant T
About the shrinking gusset: I’ve been thinking the reverse strangely.
Surely they should be engineered to efficiently catch any drips??♀️
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