I always loved having a car. Indeed, would even describe myself as a 'tortoise', as the car was my shell. Never imagined a time I would not be driving. BUT...... also hoped that I would be sensible enough to recognise when the time came to stop. Not having to wait for the large accident or several small ones that so many oldies seem to need to get this information through to them.
I drove throughout Lockdown, where necessary. Would easily do the 150 miles journey along motorways and across London to visit one of my AC.
A few months back, I found myself, listening for noises in my car, obviously concerned that something was going wrong. This followed a rather bad puncture that I had experienced. Talked to myself......if I am no longer really relaxed whilst driving, then perhaps the time has come to cease. So, I sat down and worked out exactly how much the car (fully paid for) was costing me. I no longer liked the long journeys by myself - so I was using it once a week for an eight miles round trip to Sainsbury's - and the very occasional trip of a very few miles locally. Most of the time it was tucked up in my garage - and I discovered this was costing me close on a grand a year!!!!
This was soon fter my 80th birthday - and I sold the car, cancelled my insurance, etc. dug out my Bus Pass and found I could live quite well, and without the worries about this.
Yes, when I made my last home move I made sure I was living somewhere with good public transport links. Buses stop outside of my block of flats. So much more enjoyable doing those local journeys by bus.......I can gaze at peoples homes, at shops, and at the beach and let someone else worry about the lights, and other vehicles.
Do I miss having my own car? If I am totally honest, very slightly on occasions. But, for most of the time, not at all. However, it is very important that older people try to ensure that they have alternative means of travel. All those who 'Escape to the Country'. may find themselves very isolated when no longer being able to drive.