Is it appropriate?

Agree, so sorry for your loss.

I think it would be in keeping with what I suspect they'd both want. My condolences on your losses, so very hard for you

How very sad, 4allweknow. I agree that it would be a lovely gesture for you to wear the same outfit. My condolences to you.

I agree with everyone else. Perfectly acceptable to wear the same outfit

I’m so sorry for your terrible losses, 4allweknow. Life is rotten at times.

Wearing the same outfit sounds a perfect solution and I’m sure both your dd and Dh would approve.

Totally agree, please accept my sincere condolences

A perfect plan and somewhat unites you all which is emotionally beautiful. ?

4allwe know, I send you my condolences and hope you continue to manage these sad events so well.

I agree that wearing the same outfit would ba a little link to your daughter. So, so sorry for your losses x

It would certainly be appropriate if you feel comfortable wearing it.

I’m so sorry. Yes, definitely wear the outfit. As others have said, it’s a link to both of them.?

I think it would be more than acceptable to wear the same outfit 4allweknow for lots of reasons.
If it were me, I would feel as if I had a little connection with my daughter
I'm sure she would have wanted to share and support you had she been able to
Heart felt condolences

Sending my condolences to you. On this sad time for you I would say you are entitled to wear whatever you wish ?

Sending condolences - I think it would be entirely fine to wear the same outfit, as long as it is one you feel comfortable in.

It is definitely appropriate, so sorry for your loss.

Another vote for 'perfectly appropriate' from me.

I'm so sorry for your losses, 4allweknow, and hope the day goes as well as these things can.

It will provide a poignant link 4allweknow my condolences ?

I think it would be perfectly appropriate.

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

So sorry about your bereavements

To me wearing the outfit is appropriate x

I think it is one of the nicest things you could do. Thinking of you at this sad time.

Such a sad time for you. I think you should wear the same outfit, 4allweknow.

I think you should wear it, too. If you want to make it a little different, perhaps you could add a silky scarf or brooch?

I should think that most of us have a sombre outfit that we keep mainly for funerals - just as most men have a dark suit, white shirt and black tie. Nowadays there is often a request for a favourite colour, or simply something bright to be worn, which can be the usual outfit + a bright blouse or bold scarf.

How sad for you - my condolences to you 4allweknow. - wear the same outfit -

My condolences on your sad loss. It would be a tribute to them both if you wore the same outfit I'm sure your DH would have approved when he saw you in it. Wear it you might never feel like wearing it again but it is a small remembrance of them both.