You have suffered two severe losses.
If both DD and DH liked the outfit, it is a tribute to them to wear it.
Quite often, when a member of our club dies, when we attend, a club sweater is worn, as a tribute from the other club members.
It is means of showing that their memory and pleasures are honoured.
The early release scheme it's a gimmick and helps no-one but criminals. Just build more prisons.
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