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So called jokes about rape!

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TerriBull Mon 01-Aug-22 12:19:14

AIBU to think that jokes about rape and killing women whatever the context are completely unacceptable and to women not funny at all.

Frankie Boyle, addressed a controversial stand up routine at the Latitude Festival recently in which he joked about raping and murdering tv presenter Holly Willoughby, he argued that the so called "joke" came within a wider context.

This is the context: in describing a game about killing and shagging people he included HW, he said this "I'd obviously kill and rape her afterwards, I'm only joking I'd rape her first"

AIBU, given the all too recent Sarah Everard case and the umpteen other women who will have been raped and kill by men his remarks are reprehensible. How is he getting away with this?

nanna8 Thu 04-Aug-22 11:50:04

I wouldn’t waste my time on someone who thinks rape jokes are funny and defends the scumbags who tell them. Pathetic.

minesaprosecco Wed 03-Aug-22 22:45:27

Galaxy, thanks for mentioning Victoria Smith's piece about FB. The examples of his 'jokes' she gives are pretty nasty. Volver, did you read the whole piece or just the opening statements?

Iam64 Wed 03-Aug-22 20:51:02

I can accept you didn’t know that Jings had died.
I struggle to believe it hadn’t occurred to you that at least one of the women posting on this thread had been subjected to sexual violence.
I suspect it’s more than one poster. I too am Spartacus

TerriBull Wed 03-Aug-22 20:46:25

Ok lixy

"Be aware that I still think there are quite a lot of you who would make fun of someone who doesn't think the way that they do"

Sometimes when an individual very publically makes fun of people because of the way they look or the disabilities they have to get a cheap laugh then possibly they deserve it!

Callistemon21 Wed 03-Aug-22 20:36:42

OK lixy ?

lixy Wed 03-Aug-22 20:34:52

Callistemon,Terribull, OK poor choice of word - thought-provoking would have been better. Sorry.

volver Wed 03-Aug-22 20:34:34

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volver Wed 03-Aug-22 20:33:45

Despite what people think, I do know when lines have been crossed. So talk of sexual violence suffered by a person posting on this thread and a former poster who has actually died, will prompt me to stop posting.

But be aware that I still think there are quite a lot of you who would rather make fun of someone who doesn't think the way they do and has an opinion you disapprove of.

Jings, crivvens, help ma boab.

Galaxy Wed 03-Aug-22 20:29:18

Interesting stuff floating about around goings on at The Guardian in relation to women and the culture there. I wish that every time I wasnt surprised.

Callistemon21 Wed 03-Aug-22 20:28:35

lixy
I am very rarely contentious.
Terribull is rarely contentious either, she asked a pertinent question.

I'm sorry, but we are not the contentious ones.

lixy Wed 03-Aug-22 20:26:34

volver

Would you rather I wasn't here?

No, of course not!

Your pernickitiness drives me to distraction on occasion but you, Terribull, Callistemon and others who make contentious posts do make me think and I'm grateful for that.

I just would prefer it if a thread just stopped rather than degenerate into huffiness.

Iam64 Wed 03-Aug-22 20:25:07

Lathyrus

Sexual violence yearly increase iof 15% in Scotland.
Figures of reported sexual crimes against women a 50 year high.

Scottish comedian jokes about raping and killing a woman

Comedians fans boast of sell out show in Scottish city.

?

I understand the freedom of speech issues but the issue of male violence to women isn’t something I find even slightly amusing. Why can’t these ‘comedians’ find humour in less dangerous areas

Callistemon21 Wed 03-Aug-22 20:21:37

TerriBull

Isn't Jings a late and very well loved poster on GN? what else could that word refer to, no idea!

I hope this will be my last post of the evening on this thread, I have umpteen pieces of mind numbing trash to watch on Netflix and Prime that are beckoning.

Yes, Jings was Jinglbellsfrocks, a much missed poster.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 03-Aug-22 20:16:02

TerriBull

Isn't Jings a late and very well loved poster on GN? what else could that word refer to, no idea!

I hope this will be my last post of the evening on this thread, I have umpteen pieces of mind numbing trash to watch on Netflix and Prime that are beckoning.

Yep, unfortunately she is also deceased

TerriBull Wed 03-Aug-22 20:14:20

Isn't Jings a late and very well loved poster on GN? what else could that word refer to, no idea!

I hope this will be my last post of the evening on this thread, I have umpteen pieces of mind numbing trash to watch on Netflix and Prime that are beckoning.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 03-Aug-22 20:13:52

I am a lover not a hater.

Having been a victim of sexual violence myself, just cannot find any humour in the subject whatsoever.

Each to their own …

Galaxy Wed 03-Aug-22 19:59:08

As I have said I am against policing jokes but am very wary of him. If it's any help I feel a bit the same about Stewart Lee.

volver Wed 03-Aug-22 19:45:31

Just as well I'm not a goadyfucker then. Think of all the fun I'd miss if you weren't all here.

But do carry on and ignore me by making posts addressing me directly. That's sensible.

Callistemon21 Wed 03-Aug-22 19:43:11

volver

Jings.

Move over Meghan, they've found somebody new to hate.

?

Who are they?

Goadyfuckery again which is best ignored because the main aim of a goadyfucker (according to MN) is to get other posters banned.

Callistemon21 Wed 03-Aug-22 19:39:26

volver

Jings.

Move over Meghan, they've found somebody new to hate.

?

Why should anyone hate him?
He seems to have hatred enough for women without us stooping to his level.

Callistemon21 Wed 03-Aug-22 19:37:48

volver

Would you rather I wasn't here?

Answering a question with a question.
That's a politician's answer.

Lathyrus Wed 03-Aug-22 19:36:10

Well yes.

You don’t think it’s funny……..

volver Wed 03-Aug-22 19:29:22

I know what you think.

Do you? My God, such prescience.

Lathyrus Wed 03-Aug-22 19:23:44

Frankie Boyle might have bought tickets to his own show.

Just a joke, volver. Don’t you think it’s funny ????

Which is worse. No don’t bother. I know what you think.

Lathyrus Wed 03-Aug-22 19:19:53

Sexual violence yearly increase iof 15% in Scotland.
Figures of reported sexual crimes against women a 50 year high.

Scottish comedian jokes about raping and killing a woman

Comedians fans boast of sell out show in Scottish city.

?