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Guest has come down with Covid...

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MargotLedbetter Thu 15-Sept-22 14:29:59

Thanks for all the advice about the phone. This is normal, is it? Just scrolling on his phone, looking at photos? We've never had children so I'm totally out of touch.

Grammaretto Thu 15-Sept-22 14:28:01

I am recovering from covid myself and am glad to be in my own house.
There's not much you can do apart from what you are. Make sure he has plenty to drink and his phone charged.
He will be fine.

MargotLedbetter Thu 15-Sept-22 14:27:08

23, I think. But youngest of a large family with a SAHM and I suspect used to being looked after. When I asked him if he wanted to use the washing machine (he's been travelling in Europe for four months, staying in hostels) he just handed me a bag with some of the smelliest clothing I've ever encountered! I put it through the wash twice and still there's a vague whiff of testosterone.

We've had previous young visitors from abroad and they do tend to treat us like mum and dad and expect not to have to pay for anything while they're here. I try to organise something to do/ somewhere to go most days so that they get to see something of the UK. We visit family abroad, but for a maximum of three days — and of course we have a hire car and take ourselves off, and we take people out to lunch or dinner. It's different with the youngsters. They're much more dependent.

pandapatch Thu 15-Sept-22 14:22:40

Not long till Tuesday, let him sit around on his phone and he will soon be gone.

welbeck Thu 15-Sept-22 14:14:19

what age is he.

Esspee Thu 15-Sept-22 14:09:01

He has his phone, he'll be fine. Hope you will be too.

MargotLedbetter Thu 15-Sept-22 13:57:25

I have family in New Zealand and one of their youngsters arranged to come and stay with us for a week. He was due to leave today but a couple of days ago he went down with what seemed like a cold. He spent most of yesterday in bed and has now had a positive Covid test.

It's been a busy and frankly not terribly rewarding week. He just sits around on his phone all the time if we don't organise something to do. The weather's been pretty awful and he hasn't seemed to be interested in anything I or my DH have taken him to. I've asked him a few times what his plans are when he leaves us and there don't seem to be any, which is concerning.

My DH is still suffering from side effects of Covid earlier in the year and is very worried about contracting it again, so has asked that our visitor wear a mask when in the same room as either of us. We'll wear them too. Visitor has gone back to bed and hasn't roused when I've knocked.

Obviously we're not going to chuck him out when he's ill, but as his next stop is likely to be London, and as getting to London over the weekend (and finding somewhere to stay) is going to be complicated by the funeral on Monday, I think we're probably not going to be bidding him goodbye till Tuesday — which makes my heart sink.