The empty nest syndrome?

It does sound like you have a bit more serious issue than purely missing your eldest, since you say you are weepy even though she is currently home. I would go and have a word with your doctor, perhaps you are suffering from depression.

Insomnia, loss of appetite can be symptoms of mild depression, sometimes related to hormonal issues, so please do try to make an appointment.

When we dropped my eldest off at school I had a good cry in the car and that was about it. Of course I missed her, but was happy for her to start her new stage in life. Getting used to a quieter house can be a bit painful, but not enough for constant weepiness, even when your whole family is around.

Thank you all for the much needed support and well wishes.

That's right, it's like a piece of the jigsaw missing. It reminds me of the time when she grew her first baby tooth and I suddenly realised that I will never see that adorable toothless grin ever again.

Yes, I am seriously considering therapy. I am in so much pain and keep tearing up for tiny little things. I also can't help reminiscing about her childhood wishing I can turn back the time and have her in my arms again as a little girl. I'm pre-menopausing too which isn't helping at all.

Any idea how long this feeling will last?

I have one son when he left for university I felt bereft and I always assumed he would return to live at home, but he never did.

After a while I decided I had to make changes. I went back to education and went to university and just loved it. I’ve never looked back.

Best of luck.

It’s hard. I felt the same with my last son. It does get better keep occupied anything to stop you thinking about the situation. It’s like a piece of the jigsaw missing isn’t it? I’ve always worked and I’m glad the time in there helps too.

Perhaps a little help with counselling would help , it is a natural reaction to a big change which can take a little time to adjust to. Best wishes