I have several friends near me whom I've known over 40 years. We were young parents together and have supported each other through various challenges. I also have a number of colleagues from when I returned to this area in 2005, with whom I have kept in touch as well. I like to see each group altogether whenever I can and individually as well....but not on a regular basis, although I have received invites to do so in the past. However I am always the one who initiates meetings but I find I have lost a huge amount of social confidence during the pandemic. Everyone in our family, like so many others, have faced major illness and challenges of one kind or another, including Covid. I hesitate to stop for a chat as I cannot seem to prevent myself from saying far too much about it all, one family episode even made local headline news..... It is now well over a year since our last gathering in February 2022, largely as DH has been ill since April with Covid and then we both contracted a very nasty constant coughing virus. No-one has been in touch to see if we are OK apart from the very occasional encounter in town with one or two, here and there, although I have enquired about and visited a couple of them. I experimented with 'delegating' the task of organising a gathering of former colleagues 6 months ago but a date set has been postponed, it seems indefinitely. We are traveling South for a family gathering next month for the first time since our disastrous Golden Wedding 'celebration in 2021 when 2 four party caught food poisoning. If all goes well I am hoping to have recovered my 'Mojo' and to sort out some small get-togethers locally. We all have our tales to tell about the last 3 years - in our case our series of challenges started 7 years ago. I intend to make sure my friends and colleagues learn how much their friendship has meant to me over the many years and then leave it up to them what happens next. I have no expectations. My priority now, is DH but I have also arranged to see an osteopath who specialises in female health and adopts an holistic approach to painful joints etc.....