OVERWHELMED BY WORLD EVENTS

So many conflicts are immensely prolonged by government leaders who are on a personal mission to not lose face with other government leaders and the folks at home. They are driven to protect their vast egos at any cost, but it's ordinary people who they fully expect to pay for it.
When was the last time a Head of State was on the front line of a military confrontation? Too busy, methinks, hiding behind the Cannon Fodder.

I worry about the state of the world that my grandchildren will live in as adults. Climate change, declining standards of behaviour, the incessant 'wokeness,' gender ideology, more and more people being diagnosed as something or other, ever increasing reliance on technology instead of social interactions...the list just goes on.

I try not to think about it all too much, as there's nothing I can do about it.

I agree that past generations had their own troubles, but even so, the planet itself was not under threat.

There is an old saying:-

Praise the god of all, drink the wine, and let the world be the world

At my age (80 in a few weeks) I guess I wont be around that much longer to put up with all this drama. There is nothing I as an individual can do to influence events so I am taking the high road and opting out.

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Thankyou yes it's a very scarey world at times . I find some people angry . Where I live was once a friendly over 60s cul de sac , people waved and smiled but now new people and no one even looks up any more . I always smile or say a good morning but often get a grumpy nod . No community feeling whatsoever sadly . The world does frighten me and I feel I don't belong anymore. I am a friendly person and I will always offer support or help but when I go indoors and into my quiet world I am alone and on my own . It helps to know it's not just me feeling afraid of the future .💕

Oh Toe toe, its tough really. Keep going day by day.

Thankyou for starting this thread because I live alone and fear this world and the future of my granchildren and future lifes . I cry sometimes when I hear the world news and fear a world war . It feels an unkind world . I try to smile at people and be kind to brighten their lifes because it feels as if no one cares anymore . It will help me by following this thread .

I’m trying hard to dwell on what’s going on around me I know that sounds ignorant and selfish but I try because otherwise I m overwhelmed by something entirely out of my control I don’t mean I don’t listen to world news but I try not to dwell on it or analyse it as much as I would have, or else I will become mentally unstable and totally useless
I believe, in WW2, from what I ve heard it, it was all about how to deal with ‘your’ daily problems brought on by the war so how to get to the bunker, how to get enough food how to manage the daily things to keep life normal for the children How to get wool to knit for the soldiers how to manage substitutes for everyday things this must have kept theirs brains involved

We can’t alter the minds or deeds of those causing the wars so we have to use our energies to deal with the results that we are involved in

I'll never forget seeing Argentian conscripts in "dress shoes " fighting ,a bedraggled and hopeless bunch. Or the monsterous Thatcher urging us to rejoice after hundreds of lives had been lost.

The news is desperate. Its a struggle to continue with our own little lives some days.

BlueBelle

….And took the milk away from school kids
freya I m well aware why she took us to war, was it worth it ? why shouldn’t Argentine have that bit of land on their doorstep why should we ‘own’ it ?? I have no understanding of why lives should be lost and ruined for a small island on the other side of the world, we should have given it to them in good grace 3500 population, descendants from a variety of European countries Really ….

My thoughts too BlueBelle

Yes, it's getting overwhelming. I'm afraid male world leaders DO have a penchant for the most destructive kind of willy-waving. No-one wants to blink first, but it's women who have to clear up the mess and bury the dead, look after the casualties......until the next time.

I feel your pain, although I think there are plenty of women who are just as power hungry and evil as men...look back through history and you can see this. All we can do is be kind to those less fortunate than us, teach our children and grandchildren to look out for the vulnerable, to realise that all religions teach peace and harmony and anyone using religion to cause harm is actually a tertorist, not a muslim, christian, Jewish etc terrorist, just a terrorist. I'm not religious at all but I believe in being kind, helping when you can and if you can't help then don't hinder. I listen to very little news deliberately, with the internet it's in your face anyway. Banter and laughter are good for the soul and your mental health so I'm with you, we need more of it.

I'm restructuring my viewing and only watch news headlines instead of detail. Peace of mind much improved. I've also moved away from violent, cruel drama and explicit sexual scenes. Again making my life more content and free of anxiety. Happier days indeed.

maddyone You are correct.

I’m not sure Thatcher took us into a war, correct me if I’m wrong, but I thought Argentina started the war by invading The Falkland Islands.

Well said with that final paragraph MOnica! It is untrue that all Buddhists are peaceful non-violent people- they are as nationalistic and territorial as the rest of us!

I do not think men are any more aggressive than women. It is just that because they are physically stronger because the way life has evolve women have not been in power. I have absolutely no doubt that if women were in power, nothing would change. Look at the women leaders we have had. not just Mrs Thatcher, there has been Golda Mair in Israel,

Bangladesh has had almost entirely women prime Minsters since independence, yet that country is not renowned for its peacable quiet sustaining government.

Of course when we get strong female leaders, there strength is always condemned for being patriachal and , how they cannot shake it off, when in fact, it is nothing of the sort. The qualities needed to get to the top are the same regardless of sex and reside equally in both sexes.

Humankind would still be climbing trees in tropical countries if it wasn't for the aggressive/assertive drive that makes it want to always push onwards, work at things, thos inventor that spent all their days and nights perfecting better tools, equipment , researchers spending long hours in their Labs, the demonstrators for peace, Just Stop Oil are all driven by the same drives that leads to wars.

As for religion, It is not religions that cause wars, it is their supporters that do so. All the main religions, Chritianity, Islam, Budhism all have holy books that advocate peace and protecting and living together, but it is inevitable with the natural aggressive instincts built into all of us, sooner or later some people take over religions to use them to their purposes.

A few posts up Iam64 advocates the peace and pacifism of Budhism.

Tell that to the militant budhist monks in Myanmar, who are the driving force behind the persecution of the muslim Rohinga. Read this article about the militarist Budhist monks of Myanna. www.reuters.com/world/asia-pacific/monk-militia-buddhist-clergy-backing-myanmars-junta-2022-12-08/ . Even Budhists will be violent when they feel threatened.

All of us get angry when we feel powerless. It got us where we are for good and ill.

The thought of war (particularly WW3) is terrifying, but it will terrify world leaders too. Yes, many are megalomaniacs, but they can only have power if there are people left to dominate, and there is no point in being the only ones left in the bunker with nobody to stroke your ego or remember your name.

I think it's also important to remember that this is an election year, not only in the US and the UK, but in 64 countries worldwide. It is in the interests of leaders to have scared populations who want 'strong government' to keep them safe, and who will accept spending cuts on social services in order to re-arm and build bigger armies. I am very anti-war, but even I was starting to believe that we need to pour money into strengthening our defences.

I am more sanguine about it all now. Not because I care less than I did, but because I've lived through so many potential crises, and probably also because my children are grown and I am less protective of them in the visceral way that I was when they were babies. There are so many threads on MN from younger women who are terrified of war on our soil, and whilst I totally understand their fears (my firstborn was born during the Gulf War, and I felt similarly) I think their terror is misplaced. I don't think we can ever be complacent, but I think we are a long way from the eve of destruction, which is what the papers want us to believe. Well, some of them anyway - I was given a year's subscription to the Telegraph in the summer, and I'll be quite glad when it lapses . I have never seen so much doom and gloom, warnings of imminent war and the destruction of 'our way of life'. Their reporters clearly don't skip to work in the mornings with songs in their hearts!

Speaking of songs - this one is maybe simplistic and doesn't take account of the people who will do as they are told because they live in a dictatorship, but it's thought-provoking all the same. I was going to say that it might be worth playing to any grandchildren who are worried because of the News, but having played it through to check it's safe to post, I doubt it would cheer them up. Anyway, it's over 40 years old, and we're all still here:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=flY0cubF5VY

downnotout

I might be way out of my depth here and this might not be the right place to put this on but here goes .
I have watched news from ‘abroad’,(I’m in Scotland but have travelled) from a ‘comfortable distance’ and been upset, shocked, very sad about the state of the world, be it wars, acts of god etc.
I am in my 60s now. Yes I did not live through the Second or First World Wars as my parents and grandparents did. I have only seen this reproduced very articulately in many films and heard stories. Yes we have lived through a Covid pandemic - many compared it to the Spanish Flue epidemic of 1918 killing over 215,000. And then of course, after that, the War. But I have never been so, not just touched, but devastated by the last few years of actually living through and acknowledging how dispicable men who crave war can be. And yes, I think it is indeed men. What do they crave? Land? Why? Power over reserves? Why? Power over people? Why?
Why are men so hell-bent on distructing? I am not a ‘reverse-misogynist’ but it is men who seem to have to always instigate and therefore manifest this un-harmony in the world. It is men who send our sons and their own to war to give up their lives.
I have travelled - not all over the world - but everywhere - everywhere- I have gone I have respected every country I have visited - their rules, their culture - and I have connected with so many lovely people from all walks of life just living their lives and happy to talk openly, to chat, to discuss different countries and ways of living, to laugh at the same things, talk about family, friends and even to be able to laugh at ourselves and our own countries eccentricities.
I am so saddened and appalled at what is happening now. Am I being unreasonable in thinking this? Does no one remember banter and laughter?

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I hope this isn't going to be long-winded but I feel we can have reason to hope, indeed we must.
First, more and more people are outraged by the waging of wars- public opinion does matter and you can see this in everyday life from people who want to change things.
In this democaracy we have the power to change things by our vote, our actions, the things we say and do. This gives me hope.
Our main enemy is the media- we don't even realise the powe these people have to send images and reports that we see on our screens and make us uncomfortable. Good news does not make money and that's the truth. I am in favour of an annual block the media day, when we put away our phones and switch off our TVs- the media is all about manipulation and I read it even in some comments made here. News pages will have images of the horrors of war side by side with the latest celeb gossip, the Windsors latest shenanigans- all on the same page! They don't care which bit your read, it is all money to them.
I gave up watching TV news after October because of all the manipulation going on. I watch it a bit more now, but I'm careful to be objective and watch different channels to get a wider perspective.
Yes, all wars are about power and land grabbing, often both. They are also about the arms trade (we manufacture arms and sell them to the Russians, Saudis , Iran etc) and no one wants to put the guns away because they make lots of money.
I want to answer the point about religion too. I find it lazy thinking to say that religion causes wars in and of themselves. I disagree, it is the manipulation of religion that brings the power, and using people's sensibilities to fool them into thinking the war-mongers are religious themselves.
You can see this plainly with Netanyahu and Trump, in Iran and Afghanistan too. Hitler was a prime example.
I have no answers, but I do think people should calm down a little. We have images coming into our homes in an instant- we just see more of these wars and devastation where previously our ignorance was our protection. We don't have to buy it! We can help our own communities, raise our families well, be understanding to people who aren't like us and most of all cease blaming all but those who are not losing sleep at night, as we might otherwise be.

Callistemon21

^I don't think we should let this overwhelm us^

There's rarely been a time since WW2 when there hasn't been war or conflict somewhere in the world.
Or indeed, at any time in recorded history.

We must never forget the horrors of that war which lasted for six years so let's hope a peace can be negotiated soon and that other conflicts can be resolved.

Very true! Conflict and wars seem to be entrenched in mankind unfortunately. By the way Margaret Thatcher did not start a war.She responded to threat and military action against British people.

For almost the first time in my life I do feel overwhelmed by everything that is happening now. Not just global events but life close to home where violence and corruption is widespread and almost accepted as the norm. I worry about the future of my children and grandchildren and the world they will be living in after I die. The future does indeed seem bleak.

is there a sub-section for grannies who do a bit of global arms dealing on the side.
like knit and natter.
shoot and shatter, maybe.

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