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baby led potty training

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vegansrock Wed 27-Dec-23 20:16:16

You’ll get mums claiming kids of 3 or 4 aren’t “ready” so sending them to nursery or even reception in nappies, yet years ago most kids were out of nappies by 2 or 2.5 at the latest. Disposables make it too easy to not put the effort in. I’m not talking about SN children btw.

Patsy70 Wed 27-Dec-23 20:03:18

My two were in terry towelling nappies, but not potty trained by 5 months! Probably closer to 1 - 2 years, which was considered quite normal. I think facial expressions are a clue to when they need to use the potty. Well done to your daughter, babushka.

Bella23 Wed 27-Dec-23 19:43:04

My mum and her sister swore by this on all the children in the family. They said to feed and then hold the baby on the potty.
It never worked for my own and my mother was never with us enough to get the practice going. She did seem to know by my baby's facial expressions when to do it.
My second child did get themselves out of nappies by 18 months by copying their older sibling. They both wore towelling nappies and the second one hated them.

Grandmabatty Wed 27-Dec-23 19:27:59

My dgs2 has basically toilet trained himself!, He leads us to the toilet when he needs a poo. Having a big brother has helped because he copies him

Iam64 Wed 27-Dec-23 19:13:46

My mum swore by this for we 3, born 1949, 1953 and 58.
Washing and drying nappies and clothes was a much more demanding task than it is now, so the incentive to get children dry was there.

I left my children till age 2, then set to potty training at a tie when I had two weeks off work to do it. It was effective potty training

BlueBelle Wed 27-Dec-23 19:05:40

I too think it’s lazy parenting due to disposable nappies we have 4 year olds coming in the shop with stinky nappies hanging akimbo
All three of mine were out of nappies (that needed hand washing as no washing machine in them dark days) before one year old
All my grandkids were potty trained by one yr old as well ….
none wore disposables

Harris27 Wed 27-Dec-23 18:59:24

Well done. I’ve got three to four year olds not potty trained in my class. By lazy parenting just my opinion after twenty three years!

babushkasrule Wed 27-Dec-23 18:48:57

My daughter and her Mum friends have been 'potty training' their babies (they don't like that term, it's called 'elimination communication' which is hard to get my old head around!) since birth.

To start off with I thought it was utterly bonkers, but now my granddaughter is 5 months old and does almost all her wees and poohs on the potty!

She's in cloth nappies and clearly doesn't like being damp or dirty so lets us know when she needs to go. My daughter recognises her cues which I'm starting to pick up on, and pops her on the potty. She wees and poohs pretty much straight away. My Mum says she did the same thing with me to save on washing all those cloth nappies.

I'm mind boggled that babies can express their needs like this. Although apparently in non-industrialised countries 'baby led hygiene' like this is the norm and babies in China wear split crotch pants where the cloth is just whipped off every time they need a pee.

That's what my daughter does. On our Christmas Eve lunch out at a pub she did two discreet wees on the potty.

Does any one else out there have experience of this??