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Sorry rant alert…….AIBU? Please join in.

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Sago Tue 23-Jan-24 09:10:45

Firstly, I am sick of our “lovely guests” at our holiday let who steal; Bluetooth speaker, coffee table books, wheat packs, hand soap dispensers, wooden coat hangers and dishwasher/laundry tablets.

Secondly, restaurants that serve food in a tower! You can’t see what you’ve got,the food goes cold quickly as it’s not touching the warm plate and it’s not 1986 anymore.
The same restaurants usually can’t manage to get the condiments on the table until 10 minutes after the food arrives!
You don’t ask if the customer wants mustard when the food is in front of them, you make sure everything is there so the customer can eat straight away.

Finally, reviews, I am being asked to review EVERYTHING, the item, the delivery of the item and the post purchase customer service, from paper napkins to loo roll, please just stop.

I could go on, but please feel free to rant with me this grey Tuesday.

AIBU?

Oh a PS, people who read threads like this and come out with “ but there’s people starving etc etc.
It’s light hearted!

Sago Sat 27-Jan-24 09:19:24

Knitandnatter

Sago, as this thread is already 6 pages long it may have already been suggested but here goes:
Could you start charging a deposit for your holiday let and state that it refundable following inspection after the customers have left?
I accept that cups, glasses etc can get broken but blatant theft items you describe is despicable.

Unfortunately it’s impossible to prove, people just deny it!
Just got back from a stay there and realised a room spray has been taken too.
The things that I thought would go haven’t such as the hairdryer’s, umbrellas and shopping bags.

NotSpaghetti Sat 27-Jan-24 09:47:55

Lyndylou you could ask them (or the council if you feel uncomfortable) to cut the hedge back. There is a duty to not obstruct the pavement which goes for the hedge as well as the cars.

When a hedge grows over the pavement so it is a nuisance if you do speak to the council’s Highway Inspection Team they can tell the landowner to trim it the within a (specified) time. If they don't do so then the council do it and charge them.

Wheniwasyourage Sat 27-Jan-24 12:26:03

Just thought of another one! I hate the way some firms (yes, J Parker's, I'm looking at you) say "Shop" whatever it is, as in "Shop summer bulbs". I know what they mean, but couldn't they say "Buy", or if that's too aggressive, maybe "Browse"?

Thank you for reading. I feel better now. smile

NfkDumpling Sat 27-Jan-24 14:29:14

Litter on road sides and in lay-bys. Does anyone here admit to throwing stuff from car windows? No. Suggest it to someone who drives for a living and they answer that they never do it. Ever. No one does it. So where does it come from?

The same with those random bits of loo roll on public toilet floors. Are there women whose home toilets are strewn with loo roll?

It's a mystery.

MayBee70 Sat 27-Jan-24 15:15:03

I once read that there is a huge fine in Italy if you throw something out of a car window. Not sure if it’s true.

lizzypopbottle Sat 27-Jan-24 15:21:26

MayBee70 if it's not true, it ought to be! It should be introduced here too. But how would those people ever be caught? Dashcam footage maybe....

Glorianny Sat 27-Jan-24 17:27:28

Just been for a walk. Those people who have their dog on a great long extended lead that you can't see . They have little or no control over the dog and when it runs up to you and nearly trips you up they blame the dog!

NfkDumpling Sat 27-Jan-24 20:03:02

MayBee70

I once read that there is a huge fine in Italy if you throw something out of a car window. Not sure if it’s true.

In the UK councils can fine motorists £150 if they're seen throwing litter from a vehicle. The problem is proving it.

tedandjack22 Tue 30-Jan-24 14:27:55

@Sago I'm wondering would you recommend owning a holiday let despite these problems? We have been considering investing our savings into buying a small property to let but not sure just how much trouble it would be

Notthecatsmother Thu 01-Feb-24 15:51:15

As a pedestrian this is especially true. Drivers seem to think they dont need to tell me if they are turning in my direction or not

Notthecatsmother Thu 01-Feb-24 15:54:14

Mel1967 As a pedestrian this is especially true. Drivers seem to think they dont need to tell me if they are turning in my direction or not

Ali08 Fri 02-Feb-24 10:34:19

Mel1967

Cars that don’t indicate at roundabouts or just don’t indicate full stop 😠

This reminded me of an incident that happened many years ago. I was walking my children home from school with their dad. We were coming to a road we had to cross which was part of a cross-road. A car indicated to go right, which would take them up the road to our left, so we were crossing the road ahead, children a couple of feet in front and no more, thankfully, when the driver ignored his own indicator and decided to go straight on, narrowly missing my children.
He stopped, just in time, and looked had the audacity to give us a really hacky look...my partner held me back, knowing full well I'd have wiped that look right off his face!
Mind you, I gave him a bloody good mouthful and told him to go back to driving school to learn what an indicator is actually for!!
Luckily, the children were fine, as being so close in front of us we had managed to grab them back out of the way!

RosiesMaw Fri 02-Feb-24 10:37:10

MayBee70

I once read that there is a huge fine in Italy if you throw something out of a car window. Not sure if it’s true.

But surely everybody knows (any fule kno) that matter spontaneously dematerialises and disappears when you throw it out of a car (used to be a train) window. 😉

Ali08 Fri 02-Feb-24 10:44:23

As well as cars parked on pavements, overhanging and overgrown bushes and trees that desperately need cutting back - it must be hell for blind people!!
I definitely agree with the way companies ask for reviews. I ordered new phone chargers just last night, and within a few minutes I had messages asking me to be sure to leave feedback and to please go and see what else they had to sell!
I didn't need anything else, so I haven't bothered. But they couldn't have had time to package up the order let alone send it before asking for a review!! It has gotten way past ridiculous now.

Labradora Fri 02-Feb-24 11:40:48

I'm right with you on the freakin reviews, it drives me crazy so now I don't review anything except Airbnb for the obvious reasons.
The other stuff I agree annoying if it happens.
They are treating your holiday let like a hotel where its almost socially acceptable to nick stuff.
I don't know how you'd discourage this as I can't think of a notice tactful enough not to annoy your honest clients

wendyann23 Fri 02-Feb-24 11:45:39

Luke warm coffee in cafes. They charge enough for a cup of coffee, they could at least make sure it is hot.

V3ra Fri 02-Feb-24 12:14:53

wendyann23 my son asks for his coffee to be served in a takeaway cup for this reason, and I do too since he told me.

In a lot of places you can also take your own insulated cup and ask for your coffee to be served in that.
I haven't done that yet.

Wheniwasyourage Fri 02-Feb-24 15:57:03

Labradora

I'm right with you on the freakin reviews, it drives me crazy so now I don't review anything except Airbnb for the obvious reasons.
The other stuff I agree annoying if it happens.
They are treating your holiday let like a hotel where its almost socially acceptable to nick stuff.
I don't know how you'd discourage this as I can't think of a notice tactful enough not to annoy your honest clients

Since when has it been "almost socially acceptable" to nick things from a hotel? If you use the toiletries in small bottles they will not be kept for the next person, so they are in fact yours, but anyone who thinks it's ok to steal towels or even toilet rolls should think again!

bookwormbabe Wed 07-Feb-24 19:17:56

Agree with the rant about being asked to review everything, it drives me crazy. Even our surgert, every time my DH has one of his monthly blood tests we get a text asking him to review his experience. No prizes for guessing whether anyone takes any notice of these reviews.

spabbygirl Wed 07-Feb-24 21:53:47

I am about to start letting our cottage as a holiday let and have bought some nice coat hangers, I might keep them for ourselves now, its not on to nick things.
I'm with you about food in piles too, I just want to see what I'm getting but usually these are more to do with graphic design than nourishing, healing food, which is what I want.
I'm so with you about reviews too, they are useful but the demands are never ending!

bookwormbabe Wed 07-Feb-24 21:54:52

The constant pressure to "download the app". How is there room for all these apps on people's devices? And what is wrong with a good old-fashioned website?