AIBU about meeting halfway?

I think it’s a sensible arrangement, but if it upsets you or you think it’s unreasonable then tell her. You’re doing them the favour.

Is it because you don’t like driving, or the route, or some other reason)

It makes sense for you both to drive 3 hrs rather than one to have to drive 6 hrs.

It is unreasonable of you to agree to do it then complain about it, if you dont want to do it then then dont.

No definitely not being unreasonable to meet halfway! Very cheeky of her to ask, as you’re doing her the favour having the GS.

Yeah, better for her parents to have a 6 hour one.

I think it is ok for her to ask.

Maybe 1 hour away from you and two, from her would be acceptable?

Even then though, she does have a 4 hour round trip.

Isn’t this what family’s do, work in and help each other out. I think you are being unreasonable.

Who is doing who a favour?
I don't think YABU at all.

I guess it would be different if you or DH had suggested it but they are jetting off and want you to drive half way with all the stress that that entails.

I’d be happy to do it to help them and look forward to time with a grandson. We’ve done similar things many times. I’m wondering though how the relationship is generally. Is that a factor in feeling disgruntled? Hope you can get over feeling it’s cheeky and enjoy the weekend.

No, I don't believe its unreasonable of you

Yes it is cheeky. And the same arrangements when they return, presumably?

It saves her driving for six hours when presumably she is busy trying to prepare for going on holiday. Yes, I do think YABU.

Yes, YABU