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It's our drive!!

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kittylester Sat 31-Aug-24 16:33:22

We live quite close to the centre of a large and busy village and the road outside our house has a single yellow line which permits parking only after 6pm and before 8am.

Last night at 8.45 our ring doorbell informed us that there was someone outside our front door. It was our neighbour's brother who didn't ring the bell but went off back down the drive.

Thinking there must be something wrong, we went out to find noone there but his car parked on our drive. Our neighbour's drive had her car and another on it.

We decided just to message to check everything was OK rather than intrude on what ever was going on.

This morning we got a message from the neighbour saying that everything was OK and her brother had popped round for a chat.

Are we wrong to feel put out and what should we do or say? Our neighbour has been there about 3 years, is very nice but we now feel awkward.

mae13 Wed 04-Sept-24 23:52:48

And if this guy had had some kind of accident on YOUR drive would he expect YOU to fork out compensation? Why not - he's cheeky enough to use your drive.

BigBopper Thu 05-Sept-24 00:13:56

Make it clear that you do not want anyone parking on your drive. What if you had a fire and a fire engine needed access, or an ambulance needed access. Your drive is your property and no-one should park on it unless you say they can.

You will find that once they have done it they will take it as you won't mind if they do it again.

love0c Thu 05-Sept-24 09:51:57

I would leave it this time. You say you like them and have lived there a few years. If it happens again either knock and ask them to move as you wish to go out or start parking your car a little further up, so giving them no room to park. Once you have 'words' with neighbours you tend to be stuck with it.

Ali08 Thu 05-Sept-24 13:17:06

AreWeThereYet

Happens to us all the time - but people we don't even know usually. Plus our drive is used as a turning point despite the fact there is a turning circle ten yards away. People have to pass the turning circle to get to our drive!

I get peeved too. When I've complained I've been told to 'get over myself, it's just a drive' but you can bet your bottom dollar id the same people had strangers driving or wandering on their drive they'd be livid.

I bet those people wouldn't offer to help pay if your drive needed resurfacing or something!!
I'd be thinking lockable bollards!

kittylester Thu 05-Sept-24 22:41:39

We had 'Neighbours Drinks' earlier this week and our neighbour apologised for her brother so we will leave it at that.

We did share the cost of retarmacing the drive a few years ago and I wouldn't consider lockable bollards, planters or anything like that, there isn't the room.