Maternity finances with DP - does this seem fair?

Sorry, to be clear
I already have 30k in savings - more than he has. He said he wants me to keep those and not spend them. I have offered those savings to him to do the jobs that needs done in his house and he has refused.

The sale.of my house won't be spent during maternity leave. I'll be saving up on my salary that I get at the moment. I early just lezs than 50k and when I move in with him, if my house sells quickly, that'll be a chunk im saving. It will be cheaper for me to live with him, than continue living in my home and paying for all bills independently.

He can't move in with me as my house is absoultely tiny! Its a two bed end terrace. I have a husky dog and he has two cats. My spare bedroom is used currently as storage as the house doesn't have a great deal of storage space or an attick.
He said he would put me on the deads of his house if it helps me feel more secure but he doesn't wsnt to do this if it'll cost a fortune as we are goth trying to save money. He has recently updated his will and has left everythubg to me and has updated me as his pension beneficiary. We are also engaged.

I don't know if I'm worrying over nothing here. Do you think the financial split is okay?

There are so many threads on Mumsnet where a relationship hasn’t worked out and the mother and baby are left in a financial hole.

If you must move in together DO NOT sell your house, it is an asset and also you may need it to move back to if things don’t work out.

Rent out your house for a while and see how things pan out - do not let your partner call all the shots.

You might get better replies on Mumsnet rather than Gransnet for grandparents.

Can he move in with you and put his house on the market?

Youve put yourself in a really precarious position, getting pregnant and living in his house (shortly) whilst being unmarried.

Can you rent out your house instead of selling it?

My concern would be that you use up all the proceeds from the sale of your house on living expenses (subsidising him and paying for your child) and two years down the line you split up, being homeless, a mother and unable to work.