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I can’t be the only member thinking of flying handbags, can I 😱

The other thread explains that this poster is a young pregnant woman who has come to Gransnet because Mumsnet is too spicy.

Confusedfriend

How are my two posts far fetched??

If you need explained, you do have a problem.

This poster seems to be very attention seeking
A thread ago you were a married and divorced pregnant woman who was asking for advice about a partner 15 years older Now you sound like a doubting 16 year old trying hard to dredge up situations to get attention
I m sorry but I don’t believe in you or your problems

Write to Dear Deidre

Also, whilst anyone is welcome to post on Gransnet, and many people here can offer very good advice on a wide range of subjects, I don't think it's the best forum to be asking about boyfriend/girlfriend dilemmas such as he said/she said situations, or spotting things on your BFs facebook account or search history, etc. It all seems so juvenile, and most of us here are probably a little out of touch with such problems. I'm sure you'd get more suitable advice from some of the posters at Mumsnet.

If your posts are at all genuine, I think you sound very young and immature. I don't think your 'marriage' to a guy who is 15 years older than you is going to last long. I can't imagine that you have much in common. You sound far too immature for a man who is 15 years older than you.
With a baby on the way, you need to grow up very quickly. I don't think marrying this man is a good idea at all, apart from the fact that you may get some of his money in the future. Maybe that's what interests you. Either way, you need to grow up for the sake of your unborn child.

I am beginning to feel desperately sorry for the boyfriend.

My younger daughters, close to your age, would say: LTB.

This old mum would say: don't risk anything without a ring.

Both valid.

Time waster?

Fantasies?
Trying out plots for a book?
Overactive imagination?
Either way I don’t think this is the place for these tall tales.

Confusedfriend

Ah classic mumsnet / gransnet. If it doesn't fit your perfect narrative then it must be fake. My two post do not contradict one another. They are two different situations. And I've asked for advice on both. So what exactly is your problem? If I was a troll I'd post something comical or far fetched.

Yes, Mumsnet would be much, much nicer.

Do try them.

How are my two posts far fetched??

Plus, why would I add it in my original thread? It's not going to get alot of views and it's unlikely someone is going to scroll through all comments and see my last comment about today. So I started another thread to explain my new situation, that occurred earlier today, so it would get views and not get lost in my other thread.

Again, why are you so aggrieved?

Confusedfriend

Ah classic mumsnet / gransnet. If it doesn't fit your perfect narrative then it must be fake. My two post do not contradict one another. They are two different situations. And I've asked for advice on both. So what exactly is your problem? If I was a troll I'd post something comical or far fetched.

id post something comical or far fetched
You already have 🤷‍♀️

Because this situation, that this post refers to happened a few hours ago.. so I couldn't include it in my other thread... seeing as that wasn't posted today.

Why start another thread, two situations about the same relationship. Why not include this in your original thread?

Ah classic mumsnet / gransnet. If it doesn't fit your perfect narrative then it must be fake. My two post do not contradict one another. They are two different situations. And I've asked for advice on both. So what exactly is your problem? If I was a troll I'd post something comical or far fetched.

Report for what? I'm real, and posted two threads about two situations. Why do you feel so aggrieved about this?

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Yes I am rhe same person. I overthink lots and don't know if I'm overthinking with this and if I should speak to him.

OPs other thread

www.gransnet.com/forums/aibu/1342677-Maternity-finances-with-DP-does-this-seem-fair

Indeed…..🙄

If your partner is telling a lot of lies about a girl - I would move on and find someone who is worthy of you .

Oh dear 😳

And when you've done that, if you have time you can start another thread but I suggest you change your name.