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So this is your partner whose 15 years older than you, who loves spread sheets, who you're planning to move in with, who you're planning to marry and is the father of your unborn child.

🙄

Uh oh. Definitely call the wedding off. Don't move in with him. Don't sell or rent out your house. Check all the spreadsheets for anomalies of him spending money on Tess. Rewrite your will. Keep him off your pension rights. And then LTB.

And when you've done that, if you have time you can start another thread but I suggest you change your name.

Oh dear 😳

If your partner is telling a lot of lies about a girl - I would move on and find someone who is worthy of you .

Indeed…..🙄

OPs other thread

www.gransnet.com/forums/aibu/1342677-Maternity-finances-with-DP-does-this-seem-fair

Yes I am rhe same person. I overthink lots and don't know if I'm overthinking with this and if I should speak to him.

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Report for what? I'm real, and posted two threads about two situations. Why do you feel so aggrieved about this?

Ah classic mumsnet / gransnet. If it doesn't fit your perfect narrative then it must be fake. My two post do not contradict one another. They are two different situations. And I've asked for advice on both. So what exactly is your problem? If I was a troll I'd post something comical or far fetched.

Why start another thread, two situations about the same relationship. Why not include this in your original thread?

Because this situation, that this post refers to happened a few hours ago.. so I couldn't include it in my other thread... seeing as that wasn't posted today.

Confusedfriend

Ah classic mumsnet / gransnet. If it doesn't fit your perfect narrative then it must be fake. My two post do not contradict one another. They are two different situations. And I've asked for advice on both. So what exactly is your problem? If I was a troll I'd post something comical or far fetched.

id post something comical or far fetched
You already have 🤷‍♀️

Plus, why would I add it in my original thread? It's not going to get alot of views and it's unlikely someone is going to scroll through all comments and see my last comment about today. So I started another thread to explain my new situation, that occurred earlier today, so it would get views and not get lost in my other thread.

Again, why are you so aggrieved?

How are my two posts far fetched??

Confusedfriend

Ah classic mumsnet / gransnet. If it doesn't fit your perfect narrative then it must be fake. My two post do not contradict one another. They are two different situations. And I've asked for advice on both. So what exactly is your problem? If I was a troll I'd post something comical or far fetched.

Yes, Mumsnet would be much, much nicer.

Do try them.

Fantasies?
Trying out plots for a book?
Overactive imagination?
Either way I don’t think this is the place for these tall tales.

Time waster?

My younger daughters, close to your age, would say: LTB.

This old mum would say: don't risk anything without a ring.

Both valid.

I am beginning to feel desperately sorry for the boyfriend.

If your posts are at all genuine, I think you sound very young and immature. I don't think your 'marriage' to a guy who is 15 years older than you is going to last long. I can't imagine that you have much in common. You sound far too immature for a man who is 15 years older than you.
With a baby on the way, you need to grow up very quickly. I don't think marrying this man is a good idea at all, apart from the fact that you may get some of his money in the future. Maybe that's what interests you. Either way, you need to grow up for the sake of your unborn child.

Also, whilst anyone is welcome to post on Gransnet, and many people here can offer very good advice on a wide range of subjects, I don't think it's the best forum to be asking about boyfriend/girlfriend dilemmas such as he said/she said situations, or spotting things on your BFs facebook account or search history, etc. It all seems so juvenile, and most of us here are probably a little out of touch with such problems. I'm sure you'd get more suitable advice from some of the posters at Mumsnet.