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Special birthday present for a 70 year old

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Emerald888 Tue 10-Dec-24 21:46:04

Can anyone suggest a decent 70th Birthday present for a young at heart dear friend. Budget @ £100.
All advices much appreciated.

Emerald888 Tue 10-Dec-24 21:49:22

Can any of you suggest a suitable 70th Birthday present for a young at heart dear friend. Budget @ £100.
All advice much appreciated.

Grandmadinosaur Tue 10-Dec-24 22:05:18

I think when we get to these big birthdays we don’t necessarily need stuff. For me it’s experiences that hit the spot. I’d suggest a posh afternoon tea.

ginny Tue 10-Dec-24 22:06:55

Definitely your company on an outing if you are both mobile.

Poppyred Tue 10-Dec-24 22:07:56

You know him, we don’t ?? 🤔

Grandmadinosaur Tue 10-Dec-24 22:08:15

Or if she is a fan of the theatre some theatre tokens so she can a choose a show for herself.

Farzanah Tue 10-Dec-24 22:12:51

Donation in their name to charity of their choice. That’s what I would want. More “stuff” is meaningless at 70.

GrannyIvy Tue 10-Dec-24 22:16:10

I would say an experience would be lovely. Afternoon tea or theatre, a nice meal something to enjoy together.

CocoPops Tue 10-Dec-24 22:16:56

If I could choose I would opt for an outing together . Shopping and lunch, Theatre or cinema and dinner for example.

MissAdventure Tue 10-Dec-24 22:18:21

It depends on the recipient's likes and dislikes, much the same as any gift.
What does she enjoy; risk taking?
Cosy times?
Challenges?
Cakes?

Emerald888 Tue 10-Dec-24 23:06:47

Enjoys dining out. Mobile but not into challenges or risk taking. She is sociable and has a partner.

MissAdventure Tue 10-Dec-24 23:21:37

Erm.
No idea. smile
Just kidding - I suppose a foodie afternoon or evening would be good, then.

It would be nice to find something just a bit different though.

MissAdventure Tue 10-Dec-24 23:28:01

There are lots of foods/lunch experiences online, at all different ,locations.

Would you want to go with her, or make it so her partner goes with her?

Shelflife Tue 10-Dec-24 23:48:39

A nice idea would be lunch out for her and her partner.

Oopsadaisy1 Wed 11-Dec-24 06:31:12

If it was me I would like a day at the coast with afternoon tea.

MrOops please note.

Although I won’t see 70 again…..

vegansrock Wed 11-Dec-24 06:47:37

Meal at a smart restaurant.

Chocolatelovinggran Wed 11-Dec-24 10:11:53

It sounds as if she'd enjoy a meal out with you.
When my mother was seventy, I did seven tiny parcels to represent each decade of her life - her favourite sweets for the first ( she would have been a child during sweet rationing) , a framed picture of the family to denote the start of her family years, a sudoku book for her seventh decade, celebrating the leisure period, etc.
None of these cost much, and she enjoyed opening each one and talking about each life stage.

MissAdventure Wed 11-Dec-24 10:13:18

What a brilliant idea. smile

Aveline Wed 11-Dec-24 10:17:04

For my recent 70th I loved the experience organised by my family: a weekend at a favourite old hotel with a special picnic lunch with all my favourite treats including lots of crackers! Just family fun really.
Also they made a donation to the charity I support. I was very happy with their choices and appreciated their thoughtfulness.

madeleine45 Wed 11-Dec-24 11:24:51

If you are a confident driver, I would suggest a "voucher" written by you to offer to take her to a place of her choice. So the idea is mainly that she could go to some place that is special to her, whether somewhere she has previously lived or visited, that may no longer be accessible such as loss of public transport. You offer to be the chauffeur and perhaps have a rather nice picnic with you, but the thing is for her to go where she would like and make all the choices, with or without partner. You might make it openended or perhaps put something like within 70 miles to correspond with the birthday. If she cannot think of somewhere she would love to go to the alternative is a mystery tour that you would organise and knowing her interests might take her to the coast or to an RHS garden or whatever. Does she have a couple of friends that she is no longer able to visit or meet up with? You might organise a lunch at a convenient place and the surprise would be the friends. Hope that is of some help

Emerald888 Wed 11-Dec-24 16:55:38

Thank you. All great ideas. Would be better for her to go with her partner. I did afternoon tea at a hotel for a previous birthday and she liked it . Meal out or theatre vouchers are a great idea. As they have a city near them.
Really appreciate all your suggestions . Many thanks.

theworriedwell Wed 11-Dec-24 17:02:55

We all like different things even at 70. I'd have been very disappointed if I'd got an afternoon tea as a present for my 70th. I've had them a couple of times and basically had to drive to the arse end of nowhere to have a tea I could have got locally for half the price. So I suppose where the afternoon tea is would be a big part of it but for me I'd rather have a meal than a tea.

I'd like CocoPops idea but I've already had my 70th so it doesn't help does it.

Visgir1 Wed 11-Dec-24 17:03:28

I was 70 in October.. I did very well, From chums I received Theatre tokens, Spa tokens, a Fun Watch as well as a Coach Handbag.
Plus a couple of tongue in cheek ones.

MissAdventure Wed 11-Dec-24 17:03:44

grin

hollysteers Wed 11-Dec-24 19:40:24

£70 Marks and Spencer gift voucher.