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To expect good manners in Theatre Audiences

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Babs03 Sat 14-Dec-24 21:38:34

This is from a piece about disruption during a production of Macbeth -

‘Earlier this week, an audience member who refused to wait for a break to return to his seat disrupted a performance at the Harold Pinter Theatre on Panton Street.
The Doctor Who star, 53, was told to leave the stage for 15 minutes as the objector insisted on getting back to his row and “then lots of people kicked off”, witnesses said.’

The simple fact is we can’t afford to go to the theatre very often but love to see a performance in the West End. However, we have seen a deterioration of good theatre manners, with audience members arriving late and shuffling to their seats obscuring people’s view of the stage during the production, drunk members shouting out and clapping for no good reason, and of course people going on their phones. I saw a man in front of me playing some kind of game on his phone rather than watching the production.
I think this deterioration is to some extent due to theatre goes being allowed to take drinks from the bar into the theatre and even have drinks served to them in their seats. Certainly if someone can’t wait a couple of hours to go without a drink is something wrong. And such drinks are hardly a treat, served in nasty plastic cups.
Surely better to have proper drinks either before or after a production.
Rant over 🤔

Esperanza1974 Mon 16-Dec-24 19:58:15

The high-pitched screams of young in women in the audience are dreadful. Instead of just clapping, or yelling Bravo if they really must vocalise, they just let out these ear-splitting screams. It's DREADFUL. Maybe that's what they do at pop concerts, so that's why they do it at the theatre.

Also people leaning forward in their seats, not realising that it blocks the view of people behind.

petal53 Mon 16-Dec-24 19:59:42

I can imagine Iam. Just lovely. DH and I went to the Messiah at the Albert Hall one Easter. Was gorgeous.

Iam64 Mon 16-Dec-24 20:00:48

It was the start of Christmas for me

petal53 Mon 16-Dec-24 20:03:22

Yes, and I bet the Christmas decorations in Manchester were fabulous too. I used to love Manchester as teen. Loved going to Tiffany’s, probably closed long ago. But there’s so much to do in Manchester. Great city.

NotSpaghetti Mon 16-Dec-24 20:51:00

petal53 I also used to go to the Bridgewater Hall as a girl.

NotSpaghetti Mon 16-Dec-24 20:53:29

Actually that was probably when I was older... I think it was the Free Trade Hall before?

ReadyMeals Tue 17-Dec-24 13:03:27

Faierynan

Ready meals: Why is silent use of a mobile phone OK. I find a bright screen very distracting and most places you go to ask you to switch off your mobile, for a very good reason!!!!!!

When I'm absorbed in something I don't think a dim light from a mobile would be a problem (they have adaptive brightness). Noise would as it can physically mask the sound you are trying to hear. I think that's why people are asked to turn them off, to prevent them ringing. Btw, go easy on the exclamation marks because the gransnet server might run out of them and no one else will be able to exclaim ;)

mae13 Tue 17-Dec-24 13:25:08

People who cannot bear to get through a couple of hours of a performance without stuffing their faces should be shovelled through the nearest emergenct exit forthwith.
Mind you, years ago when I was relying on the local library for Internet access, I became aware of the smell of curry sauce - the young guy next to me had one of those appalling polysterene trays of curry balanced on his knee and kept ducking his head under the desk to eat it.
The library staff just pretended not to notice the stink. Then he rounded off with a can of Red Bull.

What a pig!