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Twixmas?!!!

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Dee1012 Sun 29-Dec-24 11:42:58

Ok...minor rant here!

Talking to a neighbour just before Christmas and she mentioned that she'd booked a little 'Twixmas' break this year, most probably seeing the look on my face i.e what the hell is Twixmas, she explained it was between Xmas and New year.
AIBU to be totally fed up of these ridiculous names nowadays?
Staycation...why not just say we're not going abroad this year?
Twixmas... having a short break before New year. angry.
I'll now go and eat another mince pie!

MissAdventure Wed 01-Jan-25 11:22:38

I like betwixt.
And I like twixes.

I just always seem to be a few steps behind with new phrases and words.

Jasudow Wed 01-Jan-25 08:39:40

MissAdventure

I wonder where these words come from.
Is there an office, somewhere of qualified 'name thinker uppers'?

It started as betwixmas Literally between and I heard that word decades ago. It gor shortened around 2010 I think. Harmless word and a good description for those cheese and chocolate eating days when you are not sure what day it is 😃

NotSpaghetti Tue 31-Dec-24 09:11:18

"Ourgate" 🤔

Near Margate? Or Ambergate? Or Harrogate?

NotSpaghetti Tue 31-Dec-24 09:04:28

wibblywobblywobblebottom

Staycation and Twixmas are just one word. It's not rocket science.

Surely they are two words!
grin

NotSpaghetti Tue 31-Dec-24 08:58:20

HappyNan1

I hate people saying “New Years”. New Years what? Eve? Day?

Aaaargh!
I find that as bad as "on Christmas".

Whiff Tue 31-Dec-24 05:13:01

NanaTuesday I explained why I didn't want anyone knocking Twixmas on page 2. Lucky the lady in question didn't read this page and had a wonderful time . It was a very brave for her to do after the death of her husband.
Woke what ever the hell that is?
I call it common decency and asked for people not to go on the bereavement threads knocking Twixmas. But of course some people can't help themselves.

I hope you don't have to feel the bone crushing grief of a loving husband or partner dieing or even worse the death of a child .

NotSpaghetti Mon 30-Dec-24 23:57:36

I have never heard "Twixmas" - but love this particular week so I think I like the word...

I think it is a positive word.

henetha Mon 30-Dec-24 23:36:38

Well, I like twixmas, the word doesn't bother me. Far more important things to worry about. And I like that bit after Christmas when the pressure is off and I can just eat left overs and binge watch recorded Christmas programmes .
But it will be nice to get back to normal soon.

welbeck Mon 30-Dec-24 23:29:53

Yes.
Let's not be such wimps as to hesitate to heap more hurt on the bereaved.

NanaTuesday Mon 30-Dec-24 21:59:01

Whiff

Everyone here knocking the phrase Twixmas don't go on the bereavement threads otherwise you will hurt people .

But aren’t we all in fear of “ hurting “ people or offending others ?
Everyone is far too woke nowadays!

NanaTuesday Mon 30-Dec-24 21:53:12

flappergirl

Twixmas has been used for quite a long time. I think it was started by hotels doing packages to fill a void. To be honest I'd rather have staycation than "our gate". When I first heard the latter I was a teenager and wondered for a long time where this hitherto unheard of seaside resort was. Living in the West Country I knew very little about the East coast, so I concluded it was probably there. Somewhere near Clacton I surmised.

I love the “somewhere near Clacton “😂

flappergirl Mon 30-Dec-24 20:36:50

Twixmas has been used for quite a long time. I think it was started by hotels doing packages to fill a void. To be honest I'd rather have staycation than "our gate". When I first heard the latter I was a teenager and wondered for a long time where this hitherto unheard of seaside resort was. Living in the West Country I knew very little about the East coast, so I concluded it was probably there. Somewhere near Clacton I surmised.

Casdon Mon 30-Dec-24 20:15:42

valdali

merryneum sounds a bit gynaecological.

You probably pronounce it like millennium, not perineum!

valdali Mon 30-Dec-24 19:46:51

merryneum sounds a bit gynaecological.

EmiliasNan Mon 30-Dec-24 18:51:29

We call it the 'merryneum', which I think sums it up nicely, and gives a jolly hum to the interlude period.

Mojack26 Mon 30-Dec-24 15:12:47

Stupid isn't it? Its like Crimbo,hate it.....hate all these stupid words

Baggs Mon 30-Dec-24 13:42:37

Granmarderby10

…still a bit puzzled as to how the word could offend?

Offence is taken, not given. And even if one argues with that, a word is not intrisically offensive. How it is used is what makes people take offence.

But, yeah, taking offence over a word like twixmas ––– good grief!

HappyNan1 Mon 30-Dec-24 13:06:19

I hate people saying “New Years”. New Years what? Eve? Day?

Granmarderby10 Mon 30-Dec-24 13:06:18

…still a bit puzzled as to how the word could offend?

2507C0 Mon 30-Dec-24 12:59:02

I have furbabies and I love them and look after them. They give me lots of affection and companionship and yes, love in return. I think the word furbabies fits the bill perfectly. I also like twixmas though staycation to me is staying in your own home. 🤷‍♀️. Each to their own😉.

Baggs Mon 30-Dec-24 11:54:26

Chuckle! I like ChrimboLimbo 😂

cc Mon 30-Dec-24 11:51:21

I'd have loved the extra days off when I was working, in some of my jobs I only had Christmas Day and Boxing Day. As far as I can remember even New Years Day wasn't an official bank holiday at that time.

wibblywobblywobblebottom Mon 30-Dec-24 11:13:38

Staycation and Twixmas are just one word. It's not rocket science.

Lathyrus3 Mon 30-Dec-24 10:01:28

Casdon

I think Twixmas is a fine description for this period, it’s infinitely better than the older alternative, Chrimbo Limbo.

ChrimboLimbo. Love it😬

Playing with language is such fun!

Going to have to diversify my card range now🤔

vintage1950 Mon 30-Dec-24 09:35:28

It's still Christmas and will be till Twelfth Night. Twixmas is a commercially invented word. Nothing wrong with the period between Christmas Day and New Year. Still a lot of good food to use up!