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warm places for the elderly to go to because they are not getting the winter fuel payment

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surfingsal Wed 08-Jan-25 18:11:24

My friend has just got home from work and decided to check on her 80 year neighbour as it so cold, when she got in the house it was freezing , she asked her neighbour why she had no heating on, it turns out she gets picked up in the morning and goes to a village hall where she stays all day in the warm and has a hot meal etc , before she goes in the morning she turns all the heating of as she is worried about the cost so when they bring her home at 5pm the house is icy cold, my friend has insisted she stays with her tonight , I wonder how many other elderly people are doing the same thing !

surfingsal Wed 08-Jan-25 21:32:32

NotSpaghetti

www.warmwelcome.uk/find-a-space

Here are some options.

This lady goes to a warm space all day but because she is not at home she turns her heating of to save money so by the time she gets back home late afternoon the house is freezing and she is then sitting in a very cold house , my friends husband decided to go into her house tonight to see what she has in the way of heating , the boiler is ancient and to make matters worse there is no double glazing ! my friend and her husband are a lovely couple they only moved next to the old lady a couple of weeks ago so they don't know much about her but they are very kind and I know they will help her all they can.

FlitterMouse Wed 08-Jan-25 21:46:22

I agree that all the media coverage about WFP has frightened people.

Is OP’s friend able to work out what the hourly cost of her neighbour’s heating would be? Does she use gas? Around 75% of all households in the UK do.

It depends on the wattage of the boiler. Mine is 20W. I pay 5.12p per unit so that’s just over a £1 per hour if the the boiler is burning gas all the time - which it isn’t doing once the thermostat reaches the required temperature - just firing every now and again to maintain it.

If heating the house from cold then this means that for the first hour or two, the cost of heating will be at that maximum rate as the boiler will run continually until the room reaches the required temperature.

Remember to factor in the daily standing charge and 5% VAT which we have to pay anyway whether we use any fuel or not.

This is a handy guide.

www.charltonandjenrick.co.uk/news/2024/11/do-you-know-how-much-your-heating-costs-per-hour/

Jaxjacky Wed 08-Jan-25 21:58:34

The problem is that although warm spaces are available, they are generally open during the day, not in the evenings, as illustrated by the OP.
It saddens me that some older people do not have family or friends to help assess their income, eligibility for help/help to get it and the most efficient way to keep warm.

Allira Wed 08-Jan-25 22:02:53

Norah

Many Churches have warming spaces.

Yes, one of our local ones has and a supermarket provides cakes and pastries.

NotSpaghetti Wed 08-Jan-25 22:04:03

Thank you surfingsal yes, I understood that particular situation but someone up above had mentioned Warm Banks and someone else the Asda "soup and a roll" offer. I was just putting it out there for others.

My advice would have been be to look at altering the boiler to come on at 3.30 or 4pm but someone has already suggested that.

Skydancer Wed 08-Jan-25 22:54:49

Ilovecheese

They need to have a bit more common sense than to let themselves get so cold.

I agree. It’s ridiculous. We all knew winter was coming so we need to make sure we have saved enough money to afford keep warm. If not, then we can get pension credit.

keepingquiet Wed 08-Jan-25 23:05:09

I am bewildered by this. Taking someone out to a warm place and going home at night to a cold house?

It makes no sense- better to be home in the daytime with no heating and put it on at night?

Better still- use the heating you have when you need it, all day long if necessary. What is the point of having it if it isn't used?

Kate1949 Wed 08-Jan-25 23:15:31

Wetherspoons sell mugs of tea, coffee, hot chocolate etc for £1.56, with unlimited free refills. I have seen older people in there with their own sandwiches. The staff turn a blind eye.

Allira Wed 08-Jan-25 23:19:22

keepingquiet

I am bewildered by this. Taking someone out to a warm place and going home at night to a cold house?

It makes no sense- better to be home in the daytime with no heating and put it on at night?

Better still- use the heating you have when you need it, all day long if necessary. What is the point of having it if it isn't used?

I am bewildered by this. Taking someone out to a warm place and going home at night to a cold house?
It makes no sense- better to be home in the daytime with no heating and put it on at night?

Sitting at home shivering on your own? Isn't it better to go somewhere where there is company, hot drinks, probably something to eat? Some elderly people might spend the time cold , miserable and alone but warm spaces offer not just warmth but warm company too and so much more.

PoliticsNerd Thu 09-Jan-25 00:34:57

Sadly much of the worry has been caused by the MSM and people on social media suggesting "pensioners" will not be able to afford adequate heating. They will be to blame if people reading dare not switch their heating on. Positive information, on the other hand, is worth-while.

Grammaretto Thu 09-Jan-25 02:44:06

I spend far more on heating than on food. Despite a new boiler and thermostatically controlled radiators, I can't function if my extremities are freezing.

It's minus 6 tonight. I'm sleeping in my sitting room with the heating on in here and I'm snug as a bug. I had the fire lit earlier.

I'm recovering from a hip replacement a week ago so I am treating myself.

nanna8 Thu 09-Jan-25 05:44:15

A few go to shopping centres here but usually because they have air con and it is too hot. You could easily spend a day in some of them, they are huge. Mind you, food isn’t that cheap there these days.

karmalady Thu 09-Jan-25 06:04:00

The up and down temperatures that some are advocating is not at all good for old lungs and circulation. A gentle warmth is good, not hot but just warm enough to be safe. Warm refuge during the day followed by a cold walk home and a very cold house, that is not a good system

It is better to keep house input on a low gentle heat, night as well as day. Putting ch on for a house that has developed deep cold during the day is not good, the boiler will work overtime and cost will be no different, whereas comfort and safety will suffer. Houses have thermal mass, walls floors and ceilings, all of that mass needs to be warm before the actual air inside becomes warm and that takes hours and days

The standing charge is what is keeping energy cost high

Whiff Thu 09-Jan-25 06:10:14

When home have heating on all day from 5 to 9. My bungalow keeps the heat in over night but if I wake in the night and it's chilly I put it on . The energy company wanted me to reduce my payments during the summer but said no as I was building my credit ready for the winter.

At the moment in hospital but my daughter has popped in everyday to put the heating on for few hours . There is a timer but as she pops round anyway she says it no bother.

The winter of 2023 I only had the heating on 3 hours a day because of cost . But not since . As I finally got PIP and became a pensioner last year and managed to get bit of pension credit so had fuel allowance.

But all pensioners should have the winter fuel allowance. We don't need £10 Christmas bonus wonder how much that would save if they didn't give it and used towards giving the fuel allowance.

mae13 Thu 09-Jan-25 06:14:29

Oreo

Libraries are warm and you can take ages to choose books or sit and read them.

Yes, but in recent years so very many branch libraries have closed due to the dreaded funding cuts and the premises sold off. Some pensioners will have to go quite a way to find an accessible library.

mae13 Thu 09-Jan-25 06:17:50

No - if you are even just a few pence over the very, very low Pension Credit threshold you won't qualify for a bean.

Cambsnan Thu 09-Jan-25 06:40:03

Gentle suggest to this lady that she gets some financial advice. Is she claiming everything she is entitles to?

harrigran Thu 09-Jan-25 08:11:32

It is false economy turning the heating off when you go out, it takes more fuel to get the house back up to a reasonable temperature.
My heating engineer asked how I managed my central heating and I said it is on 24/7 and I just turn down the temperature on the thermostat. He said it is far better to have background heat at all times especially for the elderly.

Millie22 Thu 09-Jan-25 08:39:46

People on a low income cannot 'save' money for winter.

What a ridiculous comment.

choughdancer Thu 09-Jan-25 08:57:13

Fleur20

Surfingsal.. can you persuade her to get a heated throw?. Yes its a big outlay but they cost pennies to run and would keep her safely warm in the evenings, even if the room temperature is low.

Also an electric blanket on her bed that is safe to leave on overnight. I would suggest, too, a heat pad for her armchair. All these things help to keep the person warm cheaply. As Fleur20 says they cost very little to run. Could a neighbour go in to turn these on before she gets back?

NotSpaghetti Thu 09-Jan-25 09:05:00

karmalady - you can't make people put the heating on.
My mother-in-law is financially able to but won't have any heating on after 10pm or before 7am.
She is 100

My husband called her last night to try to persuade her but she said as a compromise she wouldn't open the window!
It was -5°

Georgesgran Thu 09-Jan-25 09:07:15

I think there are several issues here - the withdrawal of the WFA which will affect some, not all.

Those who say they are just above the pension credit have to accept that a ‘line’ has had to be drawn at some point on the income scale. I feel that even if this is raised, the same comments would be made by those just over that limit?

Like others, I think this lady’s finances need to be examined - not easy in these days of secrecy and mistrust. A lot of people I know make an effort to live within their income, but have substantial savings to access when it comes to a holiday or new car. Could this lady have savings that she’s reluctant to use? I hope her kind neighbours can help her, if she does qualify for PC and the other benefits that would access.

As for the heating debate - yes, it’s better to leave it on all day and perhaps opt to build up a credit balance with the supplier during the summer, to offset cold weather costs?

It sounds good though that she can get out most days and enjoy the company of others. Many can’t.

NotSpaghetti Thu 09-Jan-25 09:13:00

Georgesgran if you have used your money to just survive over the rest of the year there will be no savings possible.

Franbern Thu 09-Jan-25 09:21:12

I really am annoyed at the way the media has gone out of its way to brainwash older people into believing that they have to choose between 'heat and eat' this year.
People on the state pension, whilst definitely not having money for any sort of extras, should be able to do both comfortably. If they are on the lower pension (and have no other income whatsoever - private pension etc), then they should be claiming Pension Credit. If on the higher pension then that should allow them to keep their home properly warm and to eat home prepared good meals.

Obviously, if people have extras like, running a car, smoking, foreign holidays, having a pet - then that is where they are choosing to spend their money. That is down to them, I have actually had people tell me they would rather be really cold in their homes in the winter so they can get on their cruise ships holidays in the summer!!!!!

If people have such large old properties that they find them difficult to heat then they really should have 'future-proofed' a long time ago. Understand people do not want to leave their life-time homes, but they do need to understand that it is costing them more by letting it get very cold each day and heating it up for the evening. A basically warm home all the time, is better for them, better for the property and better for their bank balance.

I would agree that our pension in UK is far too low - should be tied into Living Wage, but I really challenge the idea that pensioners are unable to heat their homes properly. We know that older lungs (as do very young ones), need around 18 degrees at the least.

Think the first thing the OP needs to do with their neighbour is to point out that their way of heating is probably costing them more than if they kept their home at a basic rate, and it is probably not as much as they fear to do so. If they are that hard up then they may be entitled to other benefits which they need to claim.

LizzieDrip Thu 09-Jan-25 09:26:44

Some good advice on this thread.

I would say get a heated throw - perhaps your friends are in a position to buy one for their elderly neighbour. You can get a reasonably priced one - doesn’t have to be fancy.

Also, your friend could contact (or help the lady to contact) the local council and Age Uk. There are warm home funds available which she may qualify for - particularly if she has an old boiler and a badly insulated house e.g. no double glazing.

There is help out there. It sounds like she just needs someone to advocate for her, which your friends seem in a position to do. Well done to themsmile

I do the same for an elderly neighbour.