I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. I have always been a belt and braces kind of person, and had gas and electric and a bottled gas heater in case there was any problems. However when I moved , looking for a ground floor flat, there was absolutely NO option but to have an electric only heated flat. Without exception , not one place had both, and I resented the fact that you were basically talked down to , where it was said to be unsafe as you might leave the gas on etc. As I have managed to heat my homes and been in a boat and lived abroad and come to no harm, think they have a cheek to patronise you , as the implication is that clearly at my age I cant be trusted to be safe!! So begrudgingly after trying my best to find somewhere with options I have moved here to my electric only flat. So if the price of electric goes up your options are to pay more or do without heating etc.
The winter fuel payment was very important to me, but as I dont get pension credits I now have lost that. I have always tried to exercise and walk etc, but now with cancer and a bad back I often have days when to even move around the flat is painful. I cannot move quickly so too cold to go out for a walk anyway even if I could move quicker. Trying to keep warm without the heating on is now altering the way I spend my day. My attitude has always been to get the jobs done in the morning, when I have hopefully a bit more energy , so would o shopping, use the disabled buggy in the shop and then come home, come in and sit down for a bit then go out for the shopping and bring it in and put it all away and then do whatever I planned to do for the rest of the day. Not now. I get ready to go shopping. do about half of the shopping with no frozen things, then either go to a warm space run by a church group for a little while, or go to a cafe where a small coffee allows me to sit in the warm, read the paper etc and get warmed up. Then go on to get the rest of the shopping. then go home. I go and play whist in a local village hall one evening a week, good evening , nice people and not heating my flat. Another womens group have a meeting once a week, with often very interesting speakers, I go most weeks now, because it is somewhere warm. If I am not interested in the talk, I can go and sit in another area and read my book. There is lots to do at home and I would like to make my choice of the day by what needs to be done or what I want to do. However now, despite paying for it and looking after it myself it seems as though I cannot afford to stay at home in the winter!! As for putting all the blame on Starmer, some people have very short memories of the appalling tory mess that came before. For women anyway we have already been cheated WASPI women, and because often our lives are mixed with caring for children etc so we rarely have a full pension to start with. Well at the moment in this freezing cold morning I am not too cold as on top of the dressing gown I have my bargain of the year. A white padded gilet bought from a charity shop. It nearly reaches the ground and is sleeveess but with a hood, so your arms are free to work with things but it really keeps me quite warm and the extravagent £5 I paid for it will soon be paid for.So hard luck male politicians of all kinds. You think that now I am in the eat or heat mode, that I will either slowly starve to death or die of cold. Well one of the great warmers in my life is the fury and volcanic anger I feel, and the bloody mindedness that I intend to annoy you all by living until I am 103 and the longer I breathe the more I will cost, because even a pittance of a pension is better than my dying and you being able to cross one more person off the pension list!! Throughout my life I have done voluntary work as well from the childrens playgroup to doing 3 days a week hospital car volunteer. So \I have already started my campaign, and want all women to joing me in the combination of the general strike and the suffragettes . So we do not want to let our customers down, but I want all women to join me on a one day strike, where we do not of the things that we normally do but go outside with placards showing the jobs we do. so that all the town centres and spaces will be filled with women holding up the lists of things that we would be doing on that day. So just think of it, there will be no meals on wheels, library home service, playgroups, church coffee mornings, gardens done, driving people to appointments etc etc.They try to put down what we do and make it look as though it is vey little compared to what they do. Well when there is no tea and home made cakes, no lollipop lady , church halls all closed as nothing ready to be used, etc. if we choose a summer day we could all just sit down in the street holding our placards and say nothing at all, just raise our placard and point it at someone. Whose going to join me?