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Parents stop mollycoddling your children!

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Sago Mon 07-Jul-25 12:08:14

Our local FB page has daily requests for work for 16-19 year olds, these requests unfortunately are from the parents!

On principle I would not employ someone who relied on a parent to job seek.

My three always found jobs in the summer/weekends etc.
They knocked on doors/emailed/telephoned.

AIBU?

Primrose53 Tue 15-Jul-25 16:33:14

My son did a paper round for several years when he was at high school. He got himself up, did his rural round on his bike which took nearly an hour and then got his breakfast and got dressed for school to catch the bus about 8 am.

A couple of parents DROVE their kids all the way round to deliver papers. He said it must cost them more in petrol than the kids wages.

Allira Tue 15-Jul-25 16:35:20

Yes, my DS used his bike as his round was a lttle way away and quite rural.

Allira Tue 15-Jul-25 16:36:12

Primrose53

My son did a paper round for several years when he was at high school. He got himself up, did his rural round on his bike which took nearly an hour and then got his breakfast and got dressed for school to catch the bus about 8 am.

A couple of parents DROVE their kids all the way round to deliver papers. He said it must cost them more in petrol than the kids wages.

I cooked him breakfast for when he got back 😇
Was I a helicopter mother?

Luckygirl3 Tue 15-Jul-25 16:44:54

I advertised on the village FB for a teenager aged 16+ to earn some pocket money - as you say just parents replied on their behalf. It's crazy.

It is a different world now. There are folk out there ready to exploit young girls - porn is everywhere - social media is pernicious - you often do not actually know who you are speaking to. Who can blame parents for trying to protect their children? Times have changed ....