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The stupidity of some people!

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surfingsal Fri 11-Jul-25 14:04:00

I have just been watching a large family walking down to the beach , 5 little children all under 6 with no hats on ,they also had no shoes and we have had reports of weaver fish on the beach, I spoke to one of the mums and just said I thought she would like to know about the Weaver fish and how extremally painful the sting is and wearing shoes would protect them she more or less told me to get lost , those poor children I hope they don't get stung , I have seen a grown man cry with the pain !

As I came back of the beach I followed a couple with a new born in a small pram, they had a towel over the pram to keep the sun off the baby, I was going to say something but then decided not to , I got a few yards along the beach and turned back , I said I was sorry if I sounded interfering but having a towel over the pram is very dangerous as it makes the inside of the pram very hot, I was waiting for a mouthful of abuse instead they were so grateful they had never thought of the heat and removed the towel , I was glad I said something but I must admit I was waiting for yet more abuse.

Granmarderby10 Fri 11-Jul-25 14:09:24

Never heard of weaver fish here in (UK)

surfingsal Fri 11-Jul-25 14:14:29

Granmarderby10

Never heard of weaver fish here in (UK)

We are on the south coast and have them every summer , the sting is so painful, my children and the grandchildren have always worn jelly shoes which protect the.

Dontcallmelove Fri 11-Jul-25 14:15:51

Granmarderby10

Never heard of weaver fish here in (UK)

Yep, not many poisonous fish in UK but the weaver is one of them.

OldFrill Fri 11-Jul-25 14:16:18

Occasional warnings about weaver fish in Scotland, though l believe they are more prevalent in England.

Elegran Fri 11-Jul-25 14:16:42

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c20xqvjdg91o "Beware these venomous fish lurking on our beaches"

Magenta8 Fri 11-Jul-25 14:30:37

I expect the mother thought, wrongly, that you were being unnecessarily fussy and interfering.

It is well known that weever fish do sometimes lurk on British beaches. They bury themselves in the sand along the shoreline and the spine sticking up from their backs deal a nasty sting.

Like you, I hope the children were not harmed.

BlueBelle Fri 11-Jul-25 14:40:16

Granmardeby we have weavers on the East coast too but they are in the wet sand on the way into the water so children don’t need to wear shoes if they are playing or walking up beach in the dry sandy part, but definitely always wear sea shoes in the water or along the wet sandy part
I ve never met one in all my years of sea swimming but there are odd ones burrowing around, for sure

sassenach512 Fri 11-Jul-25 14:45:09

It's difficult to know whether or not to offer advice isn't it, sometimes your wisdom/experience is seen as being an interfering busy body. You can't always predict the reaction you'll get if you warn people about hazards but I think I'd sooner risk a tongue lashing than for some little mite to come to harm

sassenach512 Fri 11-Jul-25 14:48:40

I always insisted on my children wearing sandals or jelly shoes on the beach, too many thoughtless fools leave their rubbish behind and broken glass can't be seen in the sand

Lathyrus3 Fri 11-Jul-25 14:50:45

I once spoke to a dad and two boys who were digging a deep pit in the sand. I as afraid of abuse but I knew how easily it could collapse on top of them as the tide came in from under.

He was very appreciative and said he hadn’t realised and that visitors should always listen to locals.

Kate1949 Fri 11-Jul-25 16:25:45

Yes indeed. A teenage boy has died this week after burying himself in the sand in Italy.

M0nica Fri 11-Jul-25 16:36:16

It was reported earlier today that a teenager had to be rescued after being buried by friends. The police said he was very lucky to survive.

DH always says you should never underestimate the stupidity of some people and the papers provide examples of this everyday. Like those idiots who bought land in a national par and then built a homee without planning permission saying they did not know it was a national park and that they needed planning permission. I didn't believe them, the stupidity was beleiving anyone else would and that everybody would not think how stupid they were.

JamesandJon33 Sat 12-Jul-25 15:35:48

My son stood on a weaver fish , many years ago on the south coast. It was an A&E job to remove the spines. It is NOT, just a sting