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Husband doesn’t understand the whole dishcloth/cleaning rag thing!

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Sago Wed 30-Jul-25 17:41:16

We recently moved home and we have got rid of masses of stuff and bought lots of lovely shiny new things.
However some things cannot be replaced.

I have a huge kitchen drawer with a basket of probably 30 dishcloths and another of cleaning rags.
The cleaning rags are pure linen tea towels that are old and worn, they polish like magic, the dishcloths are proper Lancashire dishcloths, I think some of these have been with me 40+ years.

They work brilliantly are not made in China and I love them.

My husband cannot understand my attachment and bought me some new dishcloths (yes been thoroughly spoilt I know!)they are Chinese rubbish so have been relegated to the utility room.

He thinks I am mad……I think I am perfectly sane.

AIBU?

justwokeup Fri 01-Aug-25 12:43:49

My husband cannot understand my attachment and bought me some new dishcloths (yes been thoroughly spoilt I know!)they are Chinese rubbish so have been relegated to the utility room.

Why do men try to change what they don’t understand? DH wants to lop trees all year round to keep them tidy!

I’m trying very hard to avoid Chinese rubbish in my house. It’s practically impossible. Just bought some white dusters from Lakeland, the jury is out atm, I might need another few years to decide if I like them.

Grandma2002 Fri 01-Aug-25 08:48:56

I have an old washing up bowl full of old face flannels, worn out towels, cut up cotton vests, etc. for drying off washed down surfaces, mopping up spills, etc. When a repair man saw my hoard he asked if I could spare a few as he never has enough old cleaning cloths in his van. I felt very generous and gave him half my supply so that now I am able to add to my store!

loopyloo Fri 01-Aug-25 07:11:44

I share a kitchen with my daughter.
She uses tea towels and hand towels as the same thing but washes them frequently whereas I have separate ones. We have a dishwasher so very little washed by hand.
I have kitchen surface cloths and then heavier duty cloths. But they are modern things. Will try these traditional ones.
It's a minefield. I'm always looking for a better way that's more efficient and hygienic.

Sago Fri 01-Aug-25 06:50:19

Maggieanne

Sago

I may ask him for some of these for Christmas..

I would love to say I’m joking………

www.google.com/aclk?sa=L&ai=DChsSEwjo_e2mheeOAxWpmFAGHYOZLsEYACICCAEQIhoCZGc&co=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI6P3tpoXnjgMVqZhQBh2DmS7BEAQYASABEgJezvD_BwE&cce=1&sig=AOD64_01UqebQlr2CHubk7UbiDB3cNRkIg&ctype=5&q=&ved=2ahUKEwiLvOmmheeOAxWacUEAHcsTCFgQ5bgDKAB6BAgGEAs&adurl=

HOW MUCH!!!

I know, I am tempted to show my husband, he will probably buy them😳.
For those that couldn’t be bothered to click the link I have posted a screenshot.

WithNobsOnIt Thu 31-Jul-25 21:50:51

SueDonim

I have a hierarchy of cleaning cloths, all in my head. Woe betide anyone who messes with it! grin

When I was about 40 I was rushed into hospital with acute appendicitis. I asked my Dh to go home and pack a bag for me, including a towel, soap and a face cloth. I discovered when I opened it, post-op, that he’d given me a dish cloth instead of a face flannel! He claimed he couldn’t tell the difference. confused

That is the best laugh l've had all day.
That's men for you Sue.

Think yourself lucky he bring you a used wet nappy.

Maggieanne Thu 31-Jul-25 21:01:00

Sago

I may ask him for some of these for Christmas..

I would love to say I’m joking………

www.google.com/aclk?sa=L&ai=DChsSEwjo_e2mheeOAxWpmFAGHYOZLsEYACICCAEQIhoCZGc&co=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI6P3tpoXnjgMVqZhQBh2DmS7BEAQYASABEgJezvD_BwE&cce=1&sig=AOD64_01UqebQlr2CHubk7UbiDB3cNRkIg&ctype=5&q=&ved=2ahUKEwiLvOmmheeOAxWacUEAHcsTCFgQ5bgDKAB6BAgGEAs&adurl=

HOW MUCH!!!

Maggieanne Thu 31-Jul-25 20:59:01

Ooh, just read about linen tea towels and it brought to mind the Irish Linen Shop in Birmingham city centre, it looked so old-fashioned but I bet it held many treasures inside, sorry slightly off topic, I bet Kate1948? (is that correct) would remember it!

Oreo Thu 31-Jul-25 19:40:33

David49

Personal attachment to Lancashire dishcloths is new to me.

😂
It’s something I’ve never come across anyway.

Mt61 Thu 31-Jul-25 17:46:36

Thanks Sago will take a look 👍🏻

castlecook Thu 31-Jul-25 17:43:20

I sometimes dust with items en route to the washing machine.

Allira Thu 31-Jul-25 17:19:15

TillyWhiz

🤣😂

You can't wring them out!! 😁

TillyWhiz Thu 31-Jul-25 17:18:41

🤣😂

Allira Thu 31-Jul-25 17:13:47

AuntieE

Worn out socks are just the thing for cleaning brass, as you can throw them out after using them.

And old socks for putting polish on shoes!

I don't like the open weave dishcloths much.

Paperbackwriter Thu 31-Jul-25 17:04:49

SueDonim

So do I Rosiesmaw. She is even more exacting about her cleaning implements than I am! She has a whole schedule pinned up on the inside of the cleaning cupboard door. 🤣🤣

OH gives our cleaner his worn-out tee shirts. She cuts them up and uses them for cleaning. Me, I like J cloths and kitchen roll.

V3ra Thu 31-Jul-25 16:44:48

LilyoftheValley

I am such a fortunate person.My late husband once bought me dusters, cleaning spray AND polish for Christmas!! Also included were a plastic poncho and a plastic container for my tapes....................

Fortunate indeed 🙂
More importantly, what did you buy him in revenge return?

welbeck Thu 31-Jul-25 16:25:31

What is a dish cloth?
Is it used for doing the washing up or drying g them.
I do washing up with a brush or occasionally a type of sponge fixed to a handle.
Couldn't bear my hands to be in wet contact with plates etc.
For drying I mostly use paper towels or let them drain onto a microfiber cloth and wipe off with similar.

Kate1949 Thu 31-Jul-25 16:22:39

I don't do enough cleaning to worry about which cloth to use blush

welbeck Thu 31-Jul-25 16:21:38

Some this sounds like a fetish...

alisonsmith4 Thu 31-Jul-25 16:20:47

Are we in 2025 or 1957?!!!

AuntieE Thu 31-Jul-25 16:13:56

Worn out socks are just the thing for cleaning brass, as you can throw them out after using them.

welbeck Thu 31-Jul-25 16:12:13

SueDonim

So do I Rosiesmaw. She is even more exacting about her cleaning implements than I am! She has a whole schedule pinned up on the inside of the cleaning cupboard door. 🤣🤣

I was amazing ly impressed
until I realised this didn't refer to the cat.

butterandjam Thu 31-Jul-25 16:06:27

Desdemona

I don't know what Lancashire dishcloths are, but I feel I have missed out and now I want some. smile

I'm saddened by the number of posters who are old enough to be grannies yet know so little about stuff from Lancashire.

My life would be bereft without my Lancashire peeler.
Also hotpot.

LilyoftheValley Thu 31-Jul-25 15:47:31

I am such a fortunate person.My late husband once bought me dusters, cleaning spray AND polish for Christmas!! Also included were a plastic poncho and a plastic container for my tapes....................

4allweknow Thu 31-Jul-25 15:36:27

I tok had to look the Lancashire cliths up. Just a muslin type clith to me. Do you need to iron them to keep the shape or do they wash and flatten out?

JamesandJon33 Thu 31-Jul-25 14:38:30

Categ knitting cotton is easy to find on the internet, edgy especially .