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Husband doesn’t understand the whole dishcloth/cleaning rag thing!

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Sago Wed 30-Jul-25 17:41:16

We recently moved home and we have got rid of masses of stuff and bought lots of lovely shiny new things.
However some things cannot be replaced.

I have a huge kitchen drawer with a basket of probably 30 dishcloths and another of cleaning rags.
The cleaning rags are pure linen tea towels that are old and worn, they polish like magic, the dishcloths are proper Lancashire dishcloths, I think some of these have been with me 40+ years.

They work brilliantly are not made in China and I love them.

My husband cannot understand my attachment and bought me some new dishcloths (yes been thoroughly spoilt I know!)they are Chinese rubbish so have been relegated to the utility room.

He thinks I am mad……I think I am perfectly sane.

AIBU?

NanaTuesday Tue 16-Sept-25 15:34:21

I have never heard of Lancashire cloths either , they sound great though .

I have a collection of old flannels or tea towels that I use for all manner of cleaning , windows ,polishing etc etc.
old flannels are great for cleaning .

I also have some lovely tea towels , I love a nice tea towel & will buy when on offer usually in Sainsbury’s & habitat . I’m also partial to pretty cloths for the kitchen .
I know , there is no hope for me . But if I have the regular white. Dishcloths then popping them in a bowl of bleach or a Milton tablet overnight is de riguer. Other than that pop in the dishwasher . Always a clean one every day .
However my DH , will use said lovely tea towel to wipe his hands , mop up spills & basically anything. Completely disregarding the dish cloths or paper towels .
But the kitchen dish cloths are usually always completely different & should therefore not be confused with the ones used for bathrooms etc.

NanaTuesday Tue 16-Sept-25 15:22:13

Allira

AuntieE

Worn out socks are just the thing for cleaning brass, as you can throw them out after using them.

And old socks for putting polish on shoes!

I don't like the open weave dishcloths much.

I have no idea who has ‘ worn out socks’ but I am sure you can apply the same to all the odd socks that I always find at both my DD’s homes

NanaTuesday Tue 16-Sept-25 15:19:27

🤣🤣🤣 So funny , men have a totally different mindset on cleaning .

eazybee Sat 23-Aug-25 10:57:16

Blue Belle
grin grin

BlueBelle Sat 23-Aug-25 05:17:44

Well I m on the husbands side here

I m obviously a slut as I have no particular named cleaning cloth, it might be a cut up t shirt, it might be an old towel I ve never heard of Lancashire whatever, only hotpots and do you know what… I have no desire to meet these wonder rags or spend a second worrying about them

I ll stay being completely out of touch and a happy old woman using anything that comes to hand

LadyBridgerton Fri 22-Aug-25 23:38:46

Before we moved down here we went to the Vantona factory shop, now sadly housing, and stocked up on Made in England towels, lovely quality and very cheap as they were slight seconds, tiny plucks for instance. I hope they see me out as one can't get them any longer. I detest seeing the Union Jack on Christy towels, made thousands of miles away.

Isthepopecatholic Tue 12-Aug-25 21:36:37

As long as he’s using them, let him buy them. You use yours, he uses his.

NanaPlenty Tue 05-Aug-25 12:45:09

Love a proper dishcloth the old fashioned sort - definitely can’t have too many as they need to be changed every day and when they get a bit ragged I put them in the cleaning cloth bag.

Granmarderby10 Mon 04-Aug-25 19:34:56

Sorry I just have to ask, A toilet drying cloth.

What in the name of?

No wait, let me guess it is a cloth to wipe the toilet seat? pedestal? cistern?

Or. *N-O-O-O-O

or could it be a towel to dry hands after washing them?🤔

welbeck Mon 04-Aug-25 14:17:20

Toilet drying cloth??????
I've heard it all now.
One of the benefits of how life's come on in my lifetime is the ubiquity of soft toilet paper.
Has a multitude of uses.
Apart from the obvious.
But some people seem to prefer to live in the dark ages.
And glory in it.
I often feel adrift on here.
Totally baffled.

Faxgran Mon 04-Aug-25 13:19:54

This is a beautiful thread. Hierarchies of cleaning cloths are so right and husbands are so wrong!

Aldom Mon 04-Aug-25 07:45:12

I remember those toilet drying cloths from long ago. I didn't know people still used them. It must be nearly sixty years since I last saw one at the home of my in-laws.

buffyfly9 Sun 03-Aug-25 19:29:50

I thought it was only my husband that did foot cleaning! I don't know how it happened (it was him) but I washed up some cups and saucers and wondered why I had a lot of foam. For some bizarre reason, which he denied, he had brought through my toilet drying cloth and put it on the kitchen sink. I went mad, he said " it's no big deal for God's sake". angry

JamesandJon33 Sat 02-Aug-25 15:22:23

Thank you Mt61 . We have a large store close by so I’m off there on Monday

Granmarderby10 Sat 02-Aug-25 00:45:02

Maggieanne I agree about town/city centres being unrecognisable, ours has almost nothing in it that I want or need because so many shops have closed even the amazing old library is now no more. Instead a horrid little place stuck in the corner of the expensively refurbed Council House. But it does have nice loos!

I am curious to know though Maggieanne what is wrong with young women with pushchairs!🤔

Mt61 Sat 02-Aug-25 00:04:45

JamesandJon33

Talking of Chinese stuff, anyone know where I can buy good wooden spoons.
Went to a large dept store today….not a one. All plastic

Tkmaxx, or homesense have an array of wooden spoons

JoyBloggs Fri 01-Aug-25 18:19:26

sazz1

I'm sure husbands have a mental block about cleaning materials. I was in hospital recently and ill for around 3 weeks altogether. Now much better I was going to mop the floors yesterday but DH assured me he had done it regularly while I was ill.
Turns out he meant dropping a single floor wipe on the floor and moving it about a bit with his foot lol. All done now with mop bucket and disinfectant lol

sazz1
This reminded me of 2 amusing floor-washing tales...

When I was in hospital after having one of the DCs the lady in the opposite bed interrogated her husband about the kitchen floor and it turned out he had washed it... but with fabric conditioner!

A TV series starring the wonderful Thora Hird had a sketch involving her in hospital wanting to know if her DH had washed the kitchen floor. He had mopped it but she then wanted to know which bucket he'd used. When he told her she was horrified... he'd used the 'outside' bucket instead of the 'inside' bucket!
shock

Scribbles Fri 01-Aug-25 17:13:32

JamesandJon33

Talking of Chinese stuff, anyone know where I can buy good wooden spoons.
Went to a large dept store today….not a one. All plastic

Have a look at ProCook - if there isn't a store near you, you can order online.

butterandjam Fri 01-Aug-25 15:29:32

JamesandJon33

Talking of Chinese stuff, anyone know where I can buy good wooden spoons.
Went to a large dept store today….not a one. All plastic

I have a collection of wooden spoons, many different woods, something I seek out in markets on world travels.

Jaxjacky Fri 01-Aug-25 15:24:13

Grandma70s

What an extraordinary thread 😀

I can’t say I have ever given any thought to these matters. I do know that I don’t have any dishcloths.

I’m with you Grandma70
JamesandJon John Lewis, Robert Dyas, IKEA and of course Amazon seem to stock them.

sazz1 Fri 01-Aug-25 14:52:53

I'm sure husbands have a mental block about cleaning materials. I was in hospital recently and ill for around 3 weeks altogether. Now much better I was going to mop the floors yesterday but DH assured me he had done it regularly while I was ill.
Turns out he meant dropping a single floor wipe on the floor and moving it about a bit with his foot lol. All done now with mop bucket and disinfectant lol

JamesandJon33 Fri 01-Aug-25 14:24:01

Talking of Chinese stuff, anyone know where I can buy good wooden spoons.
Went to a large dept store today….not a one. All plastic

Maggieanne Fri 01-Aug-25 14:14:58

Kate1949

Yes Maggieanne I remember that lovely shop.

I thought you might, haven't been to the city centre in years, last time I couldn't recognise it at all, and so many young women with pushchairs!, All the shops we loved have gone.

Grandma70s Fri 01-Aug-25 13:12:44

What an extraordinary thread 😀

I can’t say I have ever given any thought to these matters. I do know that I don’t have any dishcloths.

Kate1949 Fri 01-Aug-25 12:55:00

Yes Maggieanne I remember that lovely shop.