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Our first cruise was a no-fly Christmas/New Year to the Eastern Caribbean in 2000. P&O. m.v.Aurora.
Such a beautiful ship that actually looked like one and didn't resemble a block of flats. It was glorious.
Our two mid-teenage sons were with us and immediately they were recognised by some guys from school who's did the cruise annually. So we had a rule - days and dinner with us and meeting up with their chums after that (although they did sometimes choose to join us after dinner first for the show - they absolutely
l-o-v-ed Tom O'Connor, although they didn't know of him, and came to both his shows).
We absolutely adored the Formal Nights and their wonderful dinners and shows. Even our sons loved donning their dinner suits for the evenings (they still do!) - but they were used to wearing suits for their school uniform which probably helped!
I can't understand why people want to slop around 24-hours a day in jeans and trainers. I want an expensive holiday to be 'special' and entirely different to my usual home life (I will just add though that I've never owned a pair of jeans!).
Just like a weekend away where I like the Country House Hotel experience not a Premier Lodge one!!
Anyway, we were hooked and cruised annually for about 12+ years. Always no-fly as we liked to take all our glad rags with us, and never less than 21-nights. And, anyway, the ship (usually Aurora) was almost as much the destination as the Ports!
But then the ships became SO SO big and the passengers so hoi polloi that we decided enough was enough. We got fed up with noisy drunk passengers, the tattoos (on the women!) and the horrid earrings (on the men!), and their disrespect towards the stewards and crew.
So we transferred our affections to land based holidays on Barbados and where dinner attire in hotels and good restaurants have a strict dress code of 'Elegantly Casual' and absolutely NO
t-shirts, casual shorts or flip-flops.
We still occasionally cruise but only Cunard Princess Grill and no-fly on Queen Elizabeth or Queen Victoria. The (c) 90,000 tonnes size suits us.
However, two separate sets of friends have cruised in recent months on P&O's Aurora and had fabulous times. It's now the oldest ship in the fleet (26-years) and the smallest, but last year had a refit and looks fabulous. It is now also ADULTS ONLY.
Check carefully as to what kind of aura and atmosphere you want. How much noise is acceptable to you. How many kids you want around taking over everything.
Then when you've narrowed down your choice look up all the reviews and comments on CruiseCritic.
If you pick the right cruise for you then it will be glorious and you'll be hooked, but if you don't, then.......
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